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What could be the reason for my husband for doing this cheap act???

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Feelbad, Oct 30, 2012.

  1. Feelbad

    Feelbad Senior IL'ite

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    Hi Ladies,

    My husband was recording my voice and whatever i say emotionally during our fight and saving them by storing in his email id.

    I recently found this out when he did the same..Looks like he started doing this from the initial years of our marriage. Why would be need to do this and live with me.

    I gave birth to a baby girl now. What can i do now.. How can i trust him and live with him?
     
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  2. angelvoice

    angelvoice Gold IL'ite

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    very strange... seems like he wants to relive all the emotional drama.. which nobody actually wants to do or relive.... people forgive n forget and move on..
    did u talk with him why he did this.... ask him clearly why and what and ask him to delete it himself...
     
  3. rkgurbani

    rkgurbani IL Hall of Fame

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    This is weird...I mean no one would like to remember bad moments or even have keepsakes of them!

    I think its best to ask your husband what thrill or fancy does he get by keeping these recordings? In fact, he should be recording sounds of your laughter. You could ask him if he has any of your laughter memoirs.
     
  4. silverlight

    silverlight Silver IL'ite

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    thats not right to do..!!! did you discuss this with him? ask him a reason why was he doing like that.. if for fun.. he should have told you somedays after your fights (record)..
    in future..he might try to use them against you in fights..
    asap.. try to delete them..
     
  5. sumaramesh

    sumaramesh New IL'ite

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    IS he recording all things you said in anger to show others hear, how you talk bad with him
    how you are ruining his life ?

    This is his cheap tricks to collect proofs, to show how evil you are , and how innocent he is
    when need comes, he may use it, talk to him, and ensure he deletes all...
     
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    mlsruthi Silver IL'ite

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    Very strange to hear...you speak to him in a very polite way and get it deleted...
     
  7. MaritalBliss

    MaritalBliss Platinum IL'ite

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    He may use it against u. Confront him and ask him to delete.
     
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    cedantseq New IL'ite

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    well u ask him, then if u get no answer ask ur parents to speak to him and then his parents. if still no result, see a marriage counsellor. also when many people confront him, he may stop or give his side of story. then take an opinion
     
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    BharatS Gold IL'ite

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    Its not just you trusting him...even he has no trust in you. That seems to be the reason. Try to build trust in your relationship. It is not one way in marriage, it has to be from both sides.
     
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    gopinath Silver IL'ite

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    is he a film director??
     
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