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What can i take for SIL who would be going thru an operation?

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by deepshikha, Oct 20, 2007.

  1. deepshikha

    deepshikha Senior IL'ite

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    I am going to India next month . My younger SIL has long been treated for infertility. She'll be going thru an operation regarding same next month. I want to take some gift that can be useful to her at this time. Any suggestions?? We get lots of herbs etc. here , is there something which can be useful to my SIL? Thanks
     
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  2. Sujimallige

    Sujimallige Bronze IL'ite

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    Ur intention is gud,but still my suggestion is dont take anything that will remind her of her treatment.Let ur visit have positive effect on her.Take things casually to her like u would buy for anybody like handbag,bath set,etc girls like these things.Sometimes we may do things with gud feelings but what if the other person dosent take it in right spirit.So I personally feel it is better not to hurt her in any way trying to help her.Because infertility is a v sensitive issue & a women without even realizing it may become jealous of another fertile woman.I am not saying that ur SIL is j of u but I want to warn u of the outcomes ur innocent actions may bring up.It might unnecessarily cause issues.
    My 2 cents,let us see what the elders & experienced ladies have to say.
     
  3. latamurali

    latamurali Gold IL'ite

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    Hai Deepshikha

    Even i feel the same, suji is very correct and iamso happy for ur intention

    Jus give her Strength -

    by ur action,

    soothe her by ur positive words,

    pray for her and

    SUPPORT/ HELP her by all means

    I personally feel that,SARIRA OTHASAI IS VERY IMPORTANT than anything so try ur level best to help her, this is my opinion

    I will definitely pray for ur SIL

    latamurali
     
  4. deepshikha

    deepshikha Senior IL'ite

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    Hey thanks girls, it never occured to me that my intention could be misinterpreted :eek:mg: .... Thank you both for making me realize that. I will surely take some normal gift like cosmetic handbag etc. and will help SIL in other ways i can. Thaks again
     

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