@winterhue you definitely read my mind. Thanks for the connect. As you have rightly stated, this is exactly my worry. I can correct him, force him to stay away from his FOO, superstitious beliefs, negative influencers etc.... That too, especially now, when he is confused & I have an upper hand in this marriage. But will that solve our marital problems? Will he be genuinely happy that i saved him? Will he genuinely trust that my intentions were pure? Will he ever understand his wrong doings & the problems that i faced because of them. Because each time he spoke in affirmation, I believed he finally understood the problem. But looks like he was not. That's why he went on to cry with others, complaining against me for what i did to him. His heart truly believes i ruined his life & his FOO & that small circle of influencers are his saviours. But something in him is still keep him with me. Perhaps this is what his influencers want. Make him to be with me & ruin my peace and ultimately drain all my wealths. If i am still an average middle class girl, I wonder whether he or his family would still want to be married to me???? Leaving him wouldn't be a tough decisions given the fact that I've gone through a lot & have the courage to face the world in this age. I've become self dependent & I have a circle of strong support system. But what about my guilt?????? Will he be living normal if i leave him? I know how his people will treat him & what will be in store for him down the line. With no job, no savings and no real support system, this guy can even commit suicide given his fragile mental state right now. I will definitely be in guilt for life if that happened any day. Because i still love him and want him the best. As a born fighter, I know i can win this battle too, no matter how much longer it can be. I believe i am in the right direction & my God will be on my side when life happens after 10-15 years from now.