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wedding night

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Huma, May 13, 2007.

  1. Huma

    Huma Silver IL'ite

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    hi everyone

    i dont know if i am allowed to talk about this......

    i wonder if you ladies know what will happens in the wedding night?

    a lot of my friends say they didn't know it was like this.

    in advance thank u

    bye
     
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  2. JustAni

    JustAni Silver IL'ite

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    I am a little confused by your question... but I think you want to know whether "those who got married" did they know about the "wedding night" when they got married.... & for the unmarried, whether they know...

    In that case, yes... I knew what was to happen in the wedding night...
     
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    manisha13 New IL'ite

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    hi
    i can only say that i was very naive,as i didn't know anything,what was going to happen......was very confused and scared!!!!:confused2:

    manisha
     
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    saviblr New IL'ite

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    Can Anybody let us know,what r the Do's n Dont's on a Wedding Nite?:)
     
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    coolcool New IL'ite

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    hey, that's depends on yr husband. Eventhough I was interested in him, I was afraid and pushed him away and even kicked him with my legs away and both were laughing (as kids plays). Atlast he won (no need to say). hahaha...
     
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    saviblr New IL'ite

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    Gotya:mrgreen: Thanks,Maybe the comfort level before marriage b/w couples,shud resolve the probs on the D-day I mean D-Nite:2thumbsup: but just wondering,whether it is more romantic to goahead on the D-Nite or wait for a Honeymoon to happen? What say people?
     
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    sunkan Gold IL'ite

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    dear savi,
    there is no rules as do's and dont's but it would be better to buy time from ur partner whether it is an arranged marriage or a love marriage, it takes sometime getting used to. Some men do understand and go by it, after all it is life time togetherness and if a little time taken goes a long way then y not. The "sparisam" TOUCH that they say will automatically lead u slowly, but many men do not have the patience, that is where we need to be open about what we expect in them, when the mind is well tuned i am sure there is nothing to fear, but if u have too many reservations about being open, then it is better u relax on this issue and not rush forward. the first impression is never the best, that is one thing u must know here, and never gauge a man's perfomance on the first time, it takes some time for u to settle down to enjoy sex..hope been of help. I see u r a single and will defenitely be curious..regards sunkan
     
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    saviblr New IL'ite

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    Hey Sunkan,
    Thanks a lot for the Info.Yep,Am single and getting ready to mingle.Hence the curiosity :-D
     
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    I've noticed, Huma, that your posts are all about mariage and i suppose you are woried. I don't know if the other will take this the bad way but i really don't agree with girls going to first night with husbands not knowing what will happen. Being raised in Europe things were different for me. I also can't talk abaut that here so my sincere advise is that you see some western movies - if you can. It would be good if you could talk with someone abaut that. And i think you can talk to your husband. He can act better with you if he knows your feelings. Let him know that you accept him and you want things to go well but you feel.. blá blá blá. Sometimes men have strange thoughts about us and they can't guess what is in our mind and since this isn't always easy to talk they also make mistakes with no intencion. Like: "I will get this done fast and she will see it's not that big problem" Don't think it is strange; we do this kind of mistake with children: "I will go away and leave the baby fast to go to work and this way the baby won't cry because he will not have the time of see me going away" Really the men want that to work as wea do. One can even ask if they don't want more than we do... So start your mariage with good trust in your husband.
    Sorr:wave y for bad english.
     
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