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wat romantic topics do u to talk wit husband

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by saman, Oct 25, 2012.

  1. saman

    saman Bronze IL'ite

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    hi,

    i was always wondering how to talk or act romantically wit my husband....
    little flirty or wat ever
    if any inputs pls let me know
     
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  2. amnilakshmi

    amnilakshmi Gold IL'ite

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    me too need tips.. after many years of marriage.. i do nothave topics to share/ talk..
     
  3. BDivya

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    can we pls look into this topic.... many including me want to know some suggestions.. pls ladies give ur replies..
     
  4. Akanksha1982

    Akanksha1982 IL Hall of Fame

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    Well after marriage it is not about talks but about acts. Some acts like,
    Cuddle while watching tv
    Eat together from the same plate
    Give a head massage to him with oil
    Go out for Icecream after dinner
    Join him in shower
    Ask him to help with dressing
    Text him with love messages
    Often change the decor of the bedroom, have fresh flowers, bold color bedsheets and pillow covers
    Wear newer and fancy inners often

    Once the ambiance is set, romance will automatically follow.
     
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    Archana11 Silver IL'ite

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    Hey Akanksha, Thanks for tips. Give head massage with oil - My husband always ask me to give head massage. I mostly say No because I will be tired. Yesterday night I was applying vicks to my kid as he had running nose and could not sleep. It was around 3 AM in the morning. My husband asked me to apply vicks to him as well. I simply said, are you a kid? Cant you apply yourself? and I slept. After reading your tips I think even though I'm tired I should make time and energy to do all these.
     
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    Salaswathi Senior IL'ite

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    LOL... poor man. He will be nervous to ask again. but I see your point.
     
  7. Akanksha1982

    Akanksha1982 IL Hall of Fame

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    Massaging is the perfect act to do to get his undivided attention. I use it to brain wash him on new furniture or buying some items.
     
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    SGBV IL Hall of Fame

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    Yes, after marriage romance should be in action. Talks have no values ;)

    Wake up from the bed by kissing each other.
    Hugging and kissing before departing to work.
    Having eye contacts all the time, specially when others are around.

    Days will be always busy except for weekends. But you can make the weekends special by lazying around in the couch by cuddling while watching TV.
    Eat in one place, and drink with 2 straws in one glass as time/ place permits.

    At nights, always make time to speak to each other at least for 10-15 mins before sleeping. This time you can lay in his chest while sleeping.

    Trying new lingerie at nights brings out more romance, if you are interested.

    But more importantly, having a bath (including brushing your teeth) at night, and spraying some perfumes in a more clean/tidy room brings out more romance.

    If you are tired, then take multi-vitamin and some good sleep. The above steps also reduces tiredness.
     
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    1.For me the first and foremost to attract my DH is by maintaining good physique .

    even though I am busy I used to pull time to work out and control diet . We shud always try to maintain same physique and glamor that we used to have in college days. If you are not in good shape and not maintaining properly , he would tend to check out other women infront of U .


    2 be nice to ur DH , most of the men are mama's boys . Treat them like ur baby . Call them with nice pet name .

    3. Need patience to tolerate , don't stop showing ur purest form of love for ur DH even if he hurts you. How many times he is going to hurt you , he might get 5 times 10 times ....... 100 times . If you still reply to him politely and lovingly . He would change .

    4. Adding spice to ur married life is more important .
    a) hug / kiss him every day at least once . You take the initiative whts wrong . He is ur husband he is urs.
    b)make him relax Completely once he reaches home after work .
    C) some one already added this above- bath together at least once a month. It will not be possible for people living with join family . That would definetly make him happy .
    d) ask him to help with ur dress.
    e) nice sexy lingerie. You can but cheaper lingerie online . Even if u are in joint family , U will have ur own bedroom . Change to that sexy lingerie in dark and turn on the lights.
    f) play treasure hunt in ur bedroom . Hide the treasure keys under clothes, under bed , inside pillow cover , U can hide the final treasure key some where in ur body (ur choice)
     
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    I am bumping this thread to know more...;)
     

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