I really need your comments and ideas, dear ladies.. my very best friend is going through marital conflicts. She and her husband have been living separately since one year. Legal proceedings like mediation did not work out and now hearings will start. Before hearing starts, I want to put an effort to bring them together, on her request. She only loves him. But her husband, though he is a good person, is in full control of her parents and sisters. They are not negotiable also. I want to approach her husband by messaging him as we are friends on social network. I messaged him earlier but no reply as expected. How can I bring him into my confidence.....what should I write in message..