Hello friends After our marriage i stayed with my in-laws for just 10 days and then moved to US with my husband. During my 10day stay there my husbands younger sister constantly passed comments on me and the way my family arranged the wedding. My husband is very fond of his younger sister so i could not say a word to her but just tried to be nice. Its been 10 months since then and during this time my MIL once came over to stay with us for 5 months. While she was here she constantly tried to prevent me from calling my parents back home in India. She did not like it when i spoke of my family to my husband. I grew up in a very close knit family and have a younger 14 year old sister whom i brought up like my own child back home in India. But my MIL kept on telling me that i now belong to her family and should pay more attention to her and my huisband's siters. She would make comments about how her daughters are better than me in every way and try to put me down. My SIL's are elder to me in age and i am the youngest in my husbands family too. But my MIL wants nme to pamper my SIL's with gifts whenevr i come to India. Now we are planning to visit India during deepawali and i am so scared that i don't know what to do. I want to buy gifts for my SIL's but my husband won't let me saying that we have sent enough gifts for them earlier. I don't have the courage to ak him to buy gifts for my younger sister as i know my MIL will get irritated if she comes to know trhat i brought gifts for my family. I am really scared at the thought of visiting my in-laws as they are very dominating people(my SIL stays with her husband and one child at MIL's place ) . I have always been a mild girl and been brought up in the security of my family. My mother especially gave me a lot aof love. But now in my MIL i see only a scheming plotting lady who wants me to pamper her grown up daughters all the time. I don't want to offend my husband too but i miss all the love i got from my own family before marriage. I don't know how to handle this. Please help me.