Hello, Today is vinayaka chaviti. Again me and husband are arguing. he wore unwashed clothes to pooja and I asked why he can’t wear washed clothes. Immediately fight exploded as I probably hurt the poor narcissist ego. I came out of house. My question is he is doing pooja himself. Can I do it again later along with my kids. I wanted to send kids late to school so they can do pooja. He purposefully argued and sent them to school. So NOONE has done pooja except him. Can me and kids do it again in afternoon? Can we do it on same idol ? Or different idol needs to be bought ? This is important pooja for us. I have never missed it. I should have kept my mouth shut considering I promised myself not to talk to him but I couldn’t resist. HELP. I want to do the pooja once he’s gone or if he’s not gone can I go to temple and do it ?? Of course I do not know the schedule of the poojas in temple today.