very first conversation on phone

if you were in a arranged marriage. where your initial contact with your dh was on phone.
what did you speak at the very first conversation..
also,when he spoke to you, at the very first time, did you expect him to call you with respect..wat did you actually speak..were you interested to speak at all, to someone, who you never met personally..

ha..let me start...my dh spoke to me with very respect,at the very first phone conversation..and i was very jovial as though i was talking to my friend..