Verge of cheating...EMA????

Assuming this thread is genuine-
Yes, you are at the 'verge', so put a stop to the txting and the emotional EMA which has already begun. Put a stop to it right away.

 

Being good friends is ok but infidelity at the cost of family would be a mistake. U are not a kid. Rest u can decide best.

 

Practice yoga
Talk with you H about resuming sex

 

Messaging and all is fine but never cross the boundary line of marriage if you want to be with your husband and children and its better to cut all ties with this guy as you might end up getting too close to him emortionally and end up your marriage.
Affairs and all starts with seeking Adventure, spice up in life or whatever but its climax is always disastrous.
If you have any problems with your husband tell him directly. Why to hide anything?? Because if he finds out through a third person or in future by himself then you will land in trouble for sure. Hence now you can and will have to contol your emortions and stick to your marriage. Don't take any step which will create misunderstandings and throw your marriage into gettos.

 

Most EMA affairs start this way. The husband/wife looks for adventure outside and it destroys the marriage in the end.

I think the root of the problem is the lack of physical intimacy. Ask your husband to make love to you. If there is a problem, try masturbating.

Your husband seems like a nice guy. Most men would not be okay with their wife chatting all day with some other man. It just shows how much he loves you and trusts you. And you are breaking it.

One of my teachers went something similar to your situation. This is how it went.
-Emotional cheating
-Physical cheating
-Everyone in workplace knew it
-The husband knew it
-Divorce
-Children hated their mother
-Family Collapsed
-Marriage alliance of children got cancelled
-The younger guy got transferred and got married while our teacher lost her family and lives in shame.

So stop all contact with him. It is ridiculous to say you will stay as good friends when you clearly like him. Avoid him, he will get the idea.

 

Of course, you are clearly on the verge of an extra-martial affair. Please practice yoga and meditation. Control your mind or you'll be tempted to have an affair.
Also, cut off communication with that guy.
Take a break and travel with your husband and kids. Spice up things a little bit and have fun. Don't break the trust of your husband.

 

verge of cheating? depends on what you call as cheating. for some you are already there, for some it isn't cheating until after the act!

 

You need to end this or else it will be too late to get out of it. Trust me this guy is just enjoying some time with you till he finds someone his age . Just look into your husband s eyes and see if he really deserves this. Instead of wasting your time texting take sometime to spice up your married life. Go out with your husband, when this guy messages you tell him that you r with your husband or family and will text him when you get time. I know you are thoroughly enjoying this but this is very dangerous. I know your feeling because I was in the same situation but I got myself out of it before it was too late. Now when I think back I feel what the hell I was going to do. I would have ruined my marriage big time I would have been left alone in life. Marriage is very sacred once you are bound by it nothing should break it. Please stop yourself this feeling will go away once you start investing your time in your marriage but if you don't then this will go on till your marriage ends.

 

Spouse relation is like pani puri....finish first one totally and then the next. You are having two at a time...no one but YOU will choke.