Hi all, Every week 2 days I am highly frustated and this time I am finally coming here to vent. So I have started daycare for my LO - 1 yr for 3days/week. 3 days she is with us and we both work from home. She has recently become very naughty, demanding, clingy....has become fussy eater from a very good girl and stopped eating/drinking well. To make everything worse, she is not well. Either she is constipated or 3-4 times/day. She is not adjusting at daycare and cries the hell and throws up everyday after drop her off. Does not eat and drink from them. Now I have all the worried and tensions for her. Days she is at home ( with us WFH), my H is shut in his room, all the time working on his computer and on office calls.. ...while me running behind LO all the time, counting her milk and feeds, snacks... With her next to me, try to keep her busy, shooing her away from my laptop... Out of 8 hrs, I can not even work for 1 hr. Then later in the evening, again I am online to catch up with work and stay up late but being exhausted I can not concentrate. Then LO wakes up at night, my H many times helps her, and morning tells me, you do not wake up blah blah...even though I do and can not sleep anyways once she is up. With all this, I can not wake up early in the morning or on time, to attend my early morning/office calls, and then get her ready for daycare and cooking/packing her food. So again I drop her very late, around their lunch time, reach my office ..lunch time, again leave early to pick her up, again attend her..again not much office work done , plus exhausted because of her care. . Forget about taking care of myself, going to gym, I do not even comb for office. My H also does household, but once his work is done. He cleans out kitchen at 12 of night, then again on bed with earphones/ tabs.. He listens to songs, watches his programs on tab, while working in his room and even for 15min lunch@ dinning table, he plays tab, instead of helping me with LO or talking something. Then on and off, he says, we need to think about another kid. Its me who worries about lunch/LO's brekfast/Los' lunch/dinner and milk/snacks and spends. He does not care if Lo is eating, not eating, not doing well @ daycare.And many times my H just increases my work by not listening, and doing something stupid. Every day I cry....crying while dropping her off, cry with all he maintenance work and things going out of control. Girls I am venting out and furious about how things are out of control for me. I do not know if things are going to settle soon. .