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Valentine's Day is all marketing, no love.

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by cheer, Feb 14, 2007.

Valentine's Day is all marketing, no love.

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  1. cheer

    cheer Silver IL'ite

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    Tomorrow is a V'Day & i would like to know the opinion of Ilites what do u think???


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  2. cheer

    cheer Silver IL'ite

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    The Real Meaning of V'Day!

    The Real Meaning of V'Day!

    When we think of Valentine's Day, we often think of red roses, candy in heart- shaped boxes, mushy valentines, and winged cherubs flying about shooting starry-eyed lovers with arrows.
    But did you know that the origin of Valentine's Day, or Saint Valentine's Day, comes from the life and death of a Christian martyr? According to author Martha Zimmerman, the date traditionally celebrated as St. Valentine's Day finds it origin in the Roman festival of romance called Lupercalia, when the gods Juno and Pan were honored. It was a fertility festival or a lover's holiday looking forward to the return of Spring. In the fifth century, in an attempt to abolish the pagan festival, Pope Gelasius changed Lupercalia and its February 15 date to February 14 and called it Saint Valentine's Day. Even though the names and the date were changed, the emphasis continued to be on love.
    Who was the real Valentine, and why did he have a day named after him?
    Some authorities credit Geoffrey Chaucer with originating the custom of linking Valentine's Day with lovers. No link between the day and lovers exists before the time of Chaucer, thus leading some to conclude that it was this famous English author who connected the day with lovers. The fullest and earliest description of the tradition occurs in Chaucer's "Parliament of Fouls" composed around 1380. Since that time it has been traditional to connect St. Valentine's Day with love.
    But who was the real Saint Valentine? St. Valentine was a Roman Christian who, according to tradition, was martyred during the persecution of Christians in the third century by Emperor Claudius II. The only thing certain about the day we remember as St. Valentine's Day is that it commemorates a martyrdom. Claudius II declared all Christians illegal citizens. By his definition, they were guilty of treason because Roman citizens were required by law to worship the Emperor by declaring publicly, "Caesar is Lord!" Of course, this no Christian could do.

    The real Valentine was a Roman Christian martyred during the third century A.D. by the Emperor Claudius II. Prior to his death, Valentine continued to minister in prison by witnessing to his prison guards. One of the guards was a good man who had adopted a blind girl. He asked Valentine if his God could help his daughter. Valentine prayed and the girl was given her sight. The guard and his whole family, 46 people, believed in Jesus and were baptized. When the Emperor heard about this he was furious that Valentine was still making converts even in prison, so he sentenced Valentine to death.
    Just before being led out to his execution, the young Christian wrote a note to the jailer's daughter, signing it, "From your Valentine." The first valentine was really a Christian witness. Growing out of this story we participate in a custom of sending cards to people we love.
    Given that the tradition of sending love notes grows out of a letter written by St. Valentine to his jailer's daughter on the eve of Valentine's execution, it's ironic that the card we send has received the emphasis, instead of remembering the content of the original Valentine's card: a message of unconditional devotion to Christ, even upon pain of death.
    Over time the word "Saint" has been dropped from St. Valentine's Day, further obscuring the origins of this holiday. Instead of a negative reaction to some of the pagan origins of the day, why not celebrate the true love that compelled young Valentine to give up his life?
    Remember that the day we know as St. Valentine's Day actually commemorates the death of an early Christian martyr, Valentine, who was put to death for refusing to renounce his faith in Christ.
    Instead of chubby cherubs, sappy cards, too much candy, and soon-wilted flowers, why not point your family toward the true significance of St. Valentine's Day this year?
    By all means, celebrate the day, but re-inject it with Christian meaning by resolving to live for Jesus without fear or shame, following the godly example of Valentine's unconditional love for Christ.
    How can you celebrate St. Valentine's Day in a way that honors the original Valentine, who was martyred for his devotion to God?
    First, give your life to Christ.
    Second, declare the truth about God's love even if it costs you something.
    Third, become a servant to those you love, rather than demanding that your needs be met. According to pastor Alex Stevenson, we all want to hear the phrase, "Be my Valentine." It simply means "you are loved."
    This Valentine's Day, remember that you are loved. God loves you and wants you to be His valentine. The love that God gives us is not like the world's love. The world's love is only as sturdy as a paper Valentine's card. But God's love is not a flimsy, cheap imitation: it is the real thing. It is an all-giving love that was and is willing to suffer and die for our deliverance.
    Will you be God's valentine? It is your choice. Say yes and give to God the love He desires. And when you do, remember the first Valentine and how he gave everything, including his life, to the God he loved.
     
  3. Nila

    Nila New IL'ite

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    Hi,

    My 2 cents...it depends on how you celebrate the day with your Valentine.

    Not necessary to make it a costly celebration with buying gifts that are being marketed for the occassion. Sharing your love in special way on the special makes it more meaningful and memorable.

    Regards,
    Nila
     
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    Manjureddy Gold IL'ite

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    Hi
    Valentines day was supposed to celebrate Love as in universal love and affection towards all. But only due to the marketing strategies of greeting card makers and other gift shops, it has become a Boy-Girl affair.
    Have you noticed how , year by year, the pressure by commercial establishments is increasing on the wallet ? When it started here, a big deal was made of a bouquet and a teddy bear. Then came ads for chocolates - specialised expensive ones. Then it was champagne and candle lit dinner. This year, I notice huge ads for Diamond jewelry as Valentine gifts ! What next ? Real Estate ?

    As Nila here has said, we should strive to make it memorable by other simpler but more hearfelt ways. And maybe we dont even need a designated day to do it !

    Manjula
     
  5. sankasailaja

    sankasailaja Bronze IL'ite

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    hi cheer
    its gud of u to explain about the valentines day,but we also can celebrate this day.
    now a days it became as fashion.
    how many people are really lovers?
    im saying just my opinion.
    bye cheer.:wave
     
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    cheer Silver IL'ite

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    Thanx a lot everybody, i too agree with all u ladies, now a days V'day is just a marketing.

    Ladies plz vote ur opinion.
     
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