Hi ladies.. I am here today to seek help. All unimaginable things came in life.. everything at a time.. not able to handle even hour by hour or minute by minute. We came to India for vacation from US in June. Unfortunately, we couldn't get visa stamped. The trouble started here.. now all hell broke loose. My hubby lost US job as we can't get back to US. Now we ended up at in-laws. I am an MCA. Worked in IT. But a long ago 12 years ago. Now at my in-laws, I am having a hell. They always keep expecting me to work like machine.. my MIL doesn't give me enough to eat..even if she gives, says something that I won't feel like eating. anyway it's not at all tasty. That's different story. Everyday I retire to bed by 11.30-12 to wake up by 6 (my body clock alarm). Wake up mentally, physically exhausted. I do so much, rather having appreciation, they think I am a kamchor. I feel stranded just to do household chores..that they guide everything so much to nano level. They don't let me do things in my way. So much I have adopted to their ways. But it's never ending. My MIL always has something to comment. why did u do this, why didn't you do this;;!! Among all these things I don't have a personal life. Just wake up, work, eat sleep. I don't find time to take care of my ten year old ...can't get enough time to spend with her. My hubby at home struggling to find a job, doesn't look like he understands all this. Even if he does, I see there is nothing he can do at this moment. It's been almost 5 months we are like this. For him, there is nothing much has changed. But for me, the entire world has gone upside down. Now I am trying to find a job so that I get a getaway and can build my confidence, but nothing is working for us. my husband also trying everyway to find job even in US. We fortune nowadays is like that, someone come forward to help, so much promising...and they stop responding or simply vanish. I have got into such a situation, not able to handle things.. don't know what to do. I feel so sorry for myself...from where and how I can solve my own problems.. Any help is appreciated. please guide me. Thank you.