Vasu , thats a good idea to make your DH study, it will really help in diverting his attention. by the way he is a doctor right, he must have been really tired of finishing his masters and settling in practice. but they do keep studying for life time. I keep wondering how they find the energy and time out of their busy schedules.. regarding my place of stay , it is quite close to chennai in the next state, not in a position to share that as well as my name because of anonymity though I would love to catch all of you in facebook or phone or emails. I will take another avatar with real name later here whenever I am comfortable . I wish PM was still free in IL. I really missed to use it till it was freely available . Regarding your cooking fish dishes secret , I think I read in one of relationship forum where people were sharing incidents regarding cooking before marriage. My body is getting leaner day by day , I am feeling good but DH is worried if I will get weak due to this hurried weight loss. As regards IUI preparation for DH, he is not taking any efforts to even correctly know what the procedure is and what all is required to be done before that. His motto is merry all the time , let me see if I have some luck written in my forehead otherwise the roller coaster ride will continue ..