Trying to conceive please help me!

Discussion in 'Fertility & Trying to Conceive' started by subha04, Jan 23, 2010.

  1. lathaviswa

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    Hi Nivedha,
    can u send me the garbharakshambika sloka..
    I am also in the same position.
     
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    Hi All,

    Have been on TTC for the past 5 years...waiting for god's miracle to happen....has not happened yet...i dnt know but somehow i feel god just doesnt want to look at me or hear to my numerous prayers.....not a day goes wen i look up to him to show mercy but 5 years have passed like this...weeping, trying n being unhappy...like all said...wait ...god has a plan...will listen...i waited patiently...but till wen....i am due for my AF again ...another month on April 5th-7th....have given up on god....there is nothing called god...or god's help...i think it's just destiny...

    All have children...all post their pics..i have been seeing all of these since so long...always thinkng tht some day this day will come for me too...but then 5 years...no nothing happened...i am still looking at my friends, relatives childrens pics and watchng them grow.....feel so sad....so let down...let down by god.....

    thanks to this forum wher you can atleast share your such bitter exp and emotions...
     
  3. VLR

    VLR Silver IL'ite

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    Kushi

    I have read your other posts in the TTC forum as well...I know how upsetting it is to try for so many years and yet be unsuccessful. Even I am trying for more than 4 years and have been through 3 failed IUIs. Life is never the same once you start this ttc journey. But being so bitter and let down and emotional will not help us. The more you go into depression, the more difficult this journey will become. A few days back I was also very frustrated and upset. Then one of our ttc friends Bambli wrote this post
    http://www.indusladies.com/forums/1109862-post4282.html

    Please do go through this when you find time.. dont make this journey anymore difficult that it already is. take care of your health and please come out of this depression. May be you need a break from this ttc for a couple of months. Pursue a hobby or go on a vacation.. you need a change of environment..All the best and loads of baby dust
     
  4. shrutidunwoody

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    Please ladies help

    Hi friends

    My sister is trying to conceive. She is 30 years old. She had a regular cycle from jan this year that is 31 days. She was supposed to get periods yesterday that is 20th of april but didnt get till today ie 21 st april. She tested yesterday and got a negative on the hpt. Today in the evening when she wiped , she saw some light blood on the tissue. Is it a sign of period . She is really confused because usually she bleeds heavily but now there is no sign of period only when she wipes she sees it. Does she have to visit a gynec or wait for a few days . Please ladies advise me on this.
     
  5. shrutidunwoody

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    Re: Please ladies help

    Hi ladies

    I just now got a call from my sister that she got her periods. Please pray for her friends that she conceives soon.
     
  6. Shanmukhabhavan

    Shanmukhabhavan Silver IL'ite

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    Hi Shruti!

    Our sincere prayers and wishes are always with you and your sister as well. do not worry, i pray god that soon she will give a birth to a cute baby. baby dust.
     
  7. Priya16

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    Re: Please ladies help

    shruti,

    Where does your sister live.If she lives here in US then I would advise her to meet a fertility specialist.Ask her not to keep any mental tention that will destroy the process more.
     
  8. shrutidunwoody

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    Hi Shanmukha and Priya

    My sister lives in Bangalore. I am quite worried for her as she is already 30 and secondly she has lots and lots of work due to which sometimes she has to work on sundays also. She is under lots of stress due to work. I am searching a fertility doctor also for her in Bangalore.

    Priya, she is my twin sister.In every problem we used to be there for each other, be it studies, work or any problem.But this a problem where i cant do anything for her. I just pray that she conceives soon and she gets over this depression soon. I had told her to leave the job too, but staying at home from morning to evening is also depressing. So she prefers to work.

    Thank you all for your wishes.
     
  9. VLR

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    Re: Please ladies help

    Shruthi

    Stress is not good at all especially if your sister is having issues with ttc. She needs to see if she can manage her work without that affecting her ttc. If not she might want to take a break and concentrate on ttc. And do ask her to visit a fertility specialist at the earliest so she can get started on the treatments without any delay.

    And dont worry Sruthi. You are doing a great help to her. Prayers work wonders my dear.. especially the ones we do for others. So your prayers will definitely be answered.

    Ask your sister to take is slow on the work front and not let stress affect her health. That is very important.
     
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    Thank you VLR for your kind suggestions. I find this indusladies site as a good place to share my joys and sorrows. Thank you very much for your good wishes.
     

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