This is an attempt to re-live my pain, my joy and my every day saga along with my wife's pain, joy and everyday saga till Oct 12.. Doctor says DW completed 20 weeks 6 days. She has waited 11 years 23 weeks 6 days (That is how long we are married) to hear these words. Relief/Joy is an understatement to describe what we are currently going through. I am not a believer in good luck charm but my wife is. She thinks that since I started posting regularly from January in IndusLadies and then when her prayers were answered. She prods me to post here atleast once a week since she confirmed the pregnancy. I am not a believer in God either but I am sensitive guy (for a change and for a male). I have come close to quit this board several times especially when there were allegations like I am a divide-conquer guy. I have nothing to gain by dividing the peaceful women community here but same time I want my wife to finally fulfill her hope of becoming a mother. This week is when we start planning when to disclose it to her employer, how much paternity leave my company provides etc etc People who had issues in conceiving and holding a baby of their own can understand the agony we are undergoing..Is disclosing now too soon or if something bad will happen if we disclose? More later.