Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by imnmil, Apr 28, 2015.
super like !!
Very well said.
Basically you both are not able to strengthen the bond between you, whoever is at fault but fact is bond is not established. Surely you will need their money and if they are willing to give shows they care. Be thankful for who you got as dil,instead of just disliking her.No one is perfect. She may not be perfect but so are you. Who does what job or who thinks what or whose ego is satisfied are all very trivial things in any family more imp is clear communication. Calling your son for ex. a joru ka gulam shows how much you dislike her? there are many women in this world struggling without much support from husband. Atleast one lady in this world gets full support of her husband. Try to change your thinking in positive direction, go out socialize, spend time with kids...Son and dil or even daughter and her family is not your world...ts beyond tht...this is the age to read something new, to explore the environment...be positive..I am sure with change in your behavior your dil will surely change..show some care for her, do something which makes her happy...may a lil gesture not much effort but surely she will get feelings for you and she herself will tell her mother to keep out of it...love can win..not war in a relationship