To Divorce Or Not To..

You have two positives:
(1) Your husband and parents would support your decision to get divorce. and
(2) you have solid options.
You are young, and deserve an affectionate lover; so why post/bother-with-it here ?
Reconfirm the solidity of all your options, and go for it.
An uncontested divorce is a lot faster and easier.

 

Has he checked with a doctor ?
Has he tried medication?
All this talk about not being aroused by you or domestic issues is just excuses because he has a problem. Don't lose a good husband because of a problem that can most probably be sorted out by seeking help.

 

Imagine for a moment i am your husband's doctor. And i tell you that he has a hormone condition that can be fixed which can improve his libido and performance.

Would you consider this offer if your husband also is enthusiastic about taking up treatment.

What exactly.do you mean by "solid options" ?

 

Please don't give such advices. What do u think...life after divorce is that easy ? Instead of suggesting OP about the option of consulting doctors n family/marriage counselors, you are advising her to leave her good husband and loving father to their son.
Would you have given the same advice had your own sister or best friend been in the same situation ?
Her parents have given her the best advice as they are her true wellwishers.
Be enthusiastic to answer but keep in mind the disastrous consequences that comes with advising anyone in such a blunt manner.
Please try to make a family...not break it.

 

"Asexual" individuals are normal beings. As you say your man already has been examined by doctors and everything has been found normal.

Your husband appears, "asexual". Though it is rare condition, it is an undeniable entity. Previously, being "asexual" was thought to exist among women only. Now, it is known that men can also be asexual.

Sadly, such an asexual man's testosterone would be totally normal. There is no way it can be treated.

 

I Suspect My Husband Is Gay.

Depressed And Feeling Helpless! Pls Pls Advice

Have a look at these threads . Your husband is asexual I think. I can relate to your issue , can't advise you whether you should divorce or not as even without kid I can't decide the same for me. Counselling can not completely alter your husband into a mills and boons hero. Either you will have to put a lock into your feelings and maintain a status quo for your kid or decide to separate and deal with the multiple consequences of that .

 

@Shreema86 just a note.. asexuality is a type of sexual orientation or lack thereof. No medical condition may be present to account for the lack of libido. I dont think we have enough data to detemine the cause of OP's husband's issues. The lack of libido could be due to stress or hormonal imbalances or even diabetes.

What i mean is the term asexual may not be applicable for those who are otherwise heterosexual but presently dont have a libido due to underlying medical conditions.