Tips to STOP hating mother in law ????

1) she has insulted my education,looks,dressing,family.(in a sarcastic manner)

2) Anytime her son,my DH supports me for her mistake she cried and throws a tantrum and hubby feels so embarrassed.

3)she did not offer any help with my newborn child.I was suffering managing the baby,home,sleepless nights and C-section pain.she just sat and watched tv all day

4)She makes a mess of my home.

5)Initially she atleast washed her plates and cups but now after my pregnancy (THAT WAS the time I really needed help!) all she did was keep the plates and cups then and there.

6)she will cut veggies for cooking but the remains of the cut veggies she won't dispose.she will just leave it there.

7)she discourages me al lot.she competes also a lot!once,I went to a friends place who knew I sing well.she asked me to sing.before I could start,MIL started singing!!she wanted to show she is awesome!

8)she will want to cook for my dh.will interfere a lot with my cooking.

9) I went to India last time,had a jetlag.wanted coffee.she prepares only tea in her place.when I said that I will make it myself,she said that she did not want to waste the coffee powder.she offered that I can have only tea.I suffered with severe headache.

I can add more things..

Am I overreacting?or the above is nothing?I just do not even feel like talking to her.there is no love left.if I talk nice,it will be too fake.dh wants a civil relationship.he asked his mother to back down.she is like"iam old and will not change.ask her to change"

hmm..How can I live with her??how do I forget and smile and be civil??

 

Many MIL's suck big time!!sorry to be rude.even mine is almost the same(