TIPS TO AVOID TENSION ==My MARCH Month last post

Today I am sharing with you what I feel is key to be happy, peaceful and simple life. If one follows the principles chances of one leading a tension free life are bright, be it in office or at home or in social life.
LET ME START.
TWO WAY COMMUNICATION. Most of our problems at office or home are as we think of someone doing wrong to us. Be it with Boss, or anyone at home. Instead of talking it out amicably and logically with concerned person we tend to bottle up fueling up our emotions leading to thinking of things which may not even have happened. Only way to resolve such situations is to TALK IT OUT with concerned person in private without show of tempers but in polite way. This brings us to OPEN MIND. When you talk to someone to resolve issues donot go with preconceived ideas. Preconceived ideas are most poisonous and will have a negative thought always. Let mind be clear and blank and can start discussion. This way you may be able to follow other's way of thinking also. This could also be called POSITIVE APPROACH to resolve an issue and not to complicate it with your biased thoughts.


ADAPTABILITY. One should be able to adapt to changed circumstances. When you take up a job, the reporting head may be a person much younger or less experienced than you but you have to give the devil his / her due as he / she is the BOSS. Not that you do away with your values but see how best you can stick to them. Your value will be very well appraised by your seniors and will enlighten the juniors or the new comers to the organisation to set an example.A girl after marriage goes to new family and unless she starts considering that to be HER FAMILY there will be problems galore. She has to start a new life and it is HER HOME where she is an important member. Her authority and adaptability will be well recognised everybody in her family.:clap


GIVE CREDIT TO THOSE WHO DESERVE. :thumbsupDo not hog all praise for job well done or pass blame for failure. Share it alike with those who are responsible. FEEDBACK. The most important thing
in our day today life even a small kid expects this from family members. Happenings to be recognised in a proper manner. If you have done something after due discussion it is expected that you share what has happened with those connected to it.


The positive thought will totally eradicate the negative thought of any person and will lead us a Tension free Life. I think I putforth the correct message.

 

Hello sreema,

>I think I putforth the correct message.

--It's not just the correct message but a

thought-provoking one too!!:hatsoff

Each and every word echoes a profound
thought which makes..worth a read!:hatsoff
TKS SARASMA
:cheers
Saras[/QUOTE]

 

Dear sree,

A timely blog for me when i am soo stressed with certain hapennings....

thanks

akila

akila i am toooooooooo happy that MY BLOG
was a medicine to your stress.

 

Beautifully summarized:bowdown

1. Two way communication
2. Adaptability
3. Give credit to those who deserve
4. Feedback
:cheers

The capsule for tension free life, I will definitely put it into practise:thumbsup

TKS RAYHAAN .NOW THE VITAMIN TONIC WILL WORKOUT