Am really hurt. How can a father say this to his own child. Most of us are literally tortured by our mils, have our life destroyed coz of them, still we will never use such words for our MILs and he being a father.. just to get awat easily, he says this that too to a 2 yrs old. Sick!! When you are alone with him and the kid not around, use the same words back to him. put anyone of his loved one (sorry to say.. but am really super pissed) in XXXX will die if you keep on lazying around this. He will surely be amazed and if he has some sense he will realize if it can affect such a big jerk, than that kid is just to small to hear such words. If not, then dont even let him touch the kid unless he realises. He might ignore the kid and enjoy his super leisure time alone.. but how long can he do that. After all it his child as well and if it still doesnt get into his brain then serioulsy smack him.