Ladies, There are always things that you want to say to your MIL(usually in response to something she says), but can't, may be because it will be considered disrespectful, or to avoid conflict, such as- She- I am too old to do anything, I just want to take rest now.(She is 53) You- You are just 53, look at so and so, she is 70 and so active. She ordering you around. You- I am not your servant.:rant She asks you for an expensive gift. You- We don't have money growing on trees in our backyard. I know these problems are regularly discussed on this forum, but just starting this thread for DILs to vent. So, vent and rant everyone! What do you want to tell your MIL, FIL or any IL?