Things We Don’t Like But Still Do For The Sake Of The Society:)

I'm not a very social person. Big gatherings are frightening to me, however, I have to attend some weddings and functions of the relatives, distant relatives, friends and acquaintances so that I don't come across as a snob.

 

Weddings are crazy and tiresome.
I d do anything to avoid weddings but have to go anyways.

 

I don't like sarees. But wear it when going to weddings in India.
I respect God. But my husband is very religious. So we go as a family to temples all weekends to please him.
As a mom of a special needs child, I have learnt a lot of patience and do lots of stuff to please her.
Mostly I have done stuff to please my family. Dont care much about society

 

1. Few mentions here about saree. Actually I love wearing saree. But I live abroad and here if I wear saree people might think I am old fashioned. Same in my India visits also. Its been 2 years since I wore a saree.
2. I dont care about what I wear at home. But nowadays being cautious about home clothes. Sometimes I iron them.
3. I have no problems attending family gatherings or functions in India. But I hate attending friends' parties, meetings or birthday parties here abroad. I am an introvert and always feel uncomfortable in any gathering. But had to do just for the sake.

 

So many introverts here. I am also an introvert and I hate socializing mainly because - 1. I get judged. 2. I have to be a yes woman and pretend to go along with the crowd. 3. I am the type who looks for strong friendships. Unfortunately, I have realized that 1 always happens, you have to do 2 sometimes and 3 is just not there.

 

Sometimes I feel like speaking my mind but you know it’s the most hardest thing considering value of relationship