There's No Such Thing As Evil Eye But Do You Sometimes Wonder?

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  1. Rihana

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    Path-breaking studies have shown that opposite attract is a myth. Human beings tend to seek similarity in those they meet. I was not part of that study but am seeking similarity. : )

    This is my thinking sometimes:
    I do know that there is no such thing as an "evil eye" or nazar /drishti. It is silly to think that a person who resents my success or happiness can cause me harm just by thinking negatively about me. But sometimes ... I just have to wonder. I share a positive update with a friend or relative, and out of the blue something goes wrong within a day or two.

    Based on my totally unscientific analysis I have narrowed down the "evil eye" dispensers to a few people. I did some further testing and found that they were repeat offenders. : ) If I go for a long period without sharing happy news with these people, I do not experience any evil eye ka effects.

    Do you think like the above me sometimes?
    You don't really believe in evil eye but sometimes you think there must be something to it?
    If so, please elaborate. :grinning: :grinning:
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  2. brahan

    brahan Platinum IL'ite

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    I do believe...Or rather circumstances made me believe..Its not that intentionally ppl may have negative feelings for you..However the thought that we are better than them on certain aspects might be the trigger
     
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    I was also thinking that there is no such thing like evil eye and used to make fun of my mom when she lighted camphor, making all of us stand in front of her when I was young. However due to some incidents which happened in my life, I started believing the evil eye and I have started lighting camphor, making my children stand in front of me and my children are making funof me now. :blush:
     
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    paru123 Gold IL'ite

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    Felt it very strongly with 2 people in particular. One is a very close relative family. Whenever she praises my kid, next day kid falls sick. She has a good heart I believe , may be thats why she used to always tell me to remove drishti every time we talk. She herself must be knowing that her drishti is not good and hence suggesting the remedy. However she can't stop herself from saying good about the kid. I did not believe it earlier, but now I understand that it is really having a negative impact on the kid.
    Second is a friend, even when she says something good about the kid or any other family member, next day something bad happens. It cant be always coincidence. So I have reduced interactions with her.
     
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    I feel it is mostly bad or negative vibrations which come out through someone depending on the yearning they have for it.
    I have a local friend who visits us sometimes. I have a Tulasi plant which I go through hoops to save through the Canada winter indoors. This lady comes home and with wide eyes exclaims how beautifully it has grown and so many plants have grown.
    Gone, the very next week the plants dry up and I have to wait till spring/summer for new ones to grow. Such can be the effect of negative vibrations.
    I find it silly to carry and the cover the plant every time she comes, and every time this happens.

    After she comes and goes, I normally Dhrishtisuththify my kids, because she also comments on them how tall and good looking they have grown, and they fall sick immediately.

    Sometimes, it is not the person's problem too because they might be saying it just casually but it may take effect. But she comments from the bottom of her stomach so I think it is 'vayatherichal'.
    TO keep me sane, I do the dhrishti every time she visits or we visit her. Whether the Dhrishtisuththifying helps or not, it keeps me calm. :)
     
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    Sorry to divert the thread, what is the procedure to take dhristi for kids? Also as adults how can we protect ourselves from evil eye if no elders are with us to take dhristi for us.
     
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    I always used to wonder if such a thing exist! But whenever I post something on FB or whatsapp status, the next day I experience something bad. Infact I’m experiencing something right now!!
     
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