The truth about External beauty...

Understanding real beauty....

Quest for being beautiful never really ends.
Everyone wants to look great.Nothing wrong.It is a natural desire.

Some acheive it,some do not.How do u think this happens?
Do u think those who acheived it are lucky?And those who do not are unlucky?NO
It is all in you to look as great as u can.

Few things which help:

1) Accepting yourself for however u look.There is NO standard definition for beauty.what is "considered" beauty in 1950 is not good now.There is absolutely
NO standard definition for beauty.

2) Those who define beauty do it ONLY in their own terms. We think those people know better and blindly accept it.How come they know and decide what is beauty?Are they "GOD"?Have u ever questioned or thought about this?

3) Being self-confident about yourself.How is that achieved?By dressing,accepting the way YOU THINK and FEEL is right for you.

4) A particular hairstyle or dress looks good on a different person.It is because IT IS WHAT THEY REALLY ARE.they are doing thing which makes them feel good.
Hence,the confidence is shown and our mind believes they are beautiful.

5) NO MATTER WHAT,we need to be ourselves.we are all unique and pretty in our own way.

6) there are 1001 things which look good but if we are not comfortable in that,then do not do it.Instead,look beautiful with your own comfort level and that slowly increases your confidence to try more if u want.

Have u noticed when u look at other people,u LOOK AT THEM AS A WHOLE?in sense,u do not particularly notice only the hair,eyes,nose,lips etc etc etc.
that beauty is secondary.U take one look at a person and consider them beautiful!then ur eyes go for the particularities.that's the trick.THAT IS HOW OTHERS ALSO VIEW YOU.So,do not worry about why my nose is like this,why my eyes are like that etc etc.Take care of urself from top to bottom,be hygenic,wear what you feel comfortable in and u feel automatically beautiful and look nice to others too.

If u have seen celebrities whom u consider gorgeous,think of the above paragraph.shilpa shetty,karishma,malaika or for the matter even kareena..if u look at them too closely with the "world-set notion of what is truly beautiful",they are just average.shilpa shetty's nose is all wrong,karishma does not have great features, malaika teeth and smile is not perfect ,even kareena her face structure and thunder legs etc etc do not come under the so called "standard definition of beauty" (if there is really one).Yet,they were and are reigining queens of bollywood with zillion fan following and look super gorgeous! if u say kareena is loved for
her fair complexion,then why is deepika and priyanka loved even more?hence,complexion is also not applicable

If it all makes sense, dress well according to your comfort.invest in good fitting clothes,good hygeine,clean hair,skin and nails is all is needed and is very easily acheived in today's world.Wear your hairstyle,dress the way u feel good in.In a nutshell,your comfort,the way u love urself,good manners is all that is needed
to acheive true beauty which inturn paves way for self-confidence.then nothing is going to stop u from reaching your dreams

I wanted to post this thread as I have seen some young girls and some women struggling to feel good about themselves.
Please do pour in your thoughts on what gave u ultimate confidence when it comes to beauty.