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The suffering of my friend!

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by yams, Jun 5, 2010.

  1. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    Hi friends!
    its long back writing a thread in snippets forum!
    was busy at some work mainly due to the illness of my friend's father!
    her name is raji and long back she had lost her mother!
    her father is a police officer and now suddenly he got heart attack and that little girl was about to take him alone to the hospital since her brother is in U.k!
    she called all her relatives by her own and they operated him soon since he was in a bad condition just 4 or 5% chance of getting well!
    but by god's grace or what he came back well and got discharged from the hospital!
    i use to go daily and take care of her!

    after returned home he was good and suddenly two days before he got stroke with his total left side in an unconscious condition!
    doctors are saying he may get cured in one week or even one year! not conform in any case! she is really in a very bad situation! her brother is working in U.K so she alone can't take care of her father and her father is in a fear that he may die before seeing her marriage so they are trying to marry her as soon as possible!
    but she is not so interested at this 20 years of age to get married and also in a condition that her father is in stroke!
    really feeling sorry and bad about her condition!
    i am just being a moral support for her and what else i can do??
    just wanted to share with you friends! i know your prayers may cure him soon!:bowdown
     
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  2. Cheeniya

    Cheeniya Super Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Yamini
    I feel very sad that a twenty year old girl who should be going about her life without a care in the world and with a song on her lips should be weighed down with such misery. A crippled father can be a highly traumatizing experience and even older people find it difficult to cope with it. My mother passed away a few months back at a ripe age of 96. During her last month, she was not able to communicate with us properly and that made all of us feel miserable.
    It is nice of you to offer your friend your moral support. Sometimes, moral support means a lot to the affected person. My prayers are with the father and daughter. God bless all of you
    Sri
     
  3. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    thank you sri!
    for such consoling and caring feedback!:bowdown
     
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    Hi Yaami!

    Felt very sad to read about Raji's father. She very boldly managed to get him cured of his heart attack but so sad that he is now paralysed. When is her brother coming to India to take care of them?

    I join you in your prayers and wish Raji's father a speedy recovery dear!
     
  5. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    he came now but only two weeks of leave i hope! so i don't know what decision they are gonna take now!
    i feel so sorry for her!
    thanks for your wonderful prayer mallika!:bowdown
     
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    ganges Gold IL'ite

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    dear yams kanna

    I am feeling very sad for the girl. this is not the age to have all those burdans. but she should act bravely. i am proud that you are giving your 100% support to her. I too will pray for her father and her dear. thank you.


    ganges
     
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    My sincere prayers for both your friend and her father. Despite all that life has thrown at her, she is indeed blessed to have someone like you taking care of her at a time when she needs moral support and help the most.

    Regards
    Sujatha
     
  8. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    dear ganga ma!
    thanks for your prayers dear!
    its our duty to give a moral support
    a friend in need is a friend indeed!:cheers
     
  9. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    dear sujatha!
    thanks for your prayers dear!
    off course not only me all our school friends will stand at the back when one suffers!
    proud of our friends!
    now also each person will be with her when the other leaves her! we won't allow her to be alone!:cheers
     
  10. gsaikripa

    gsaikripa Gold IL'ite

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    Yamini

    Felt very sad to read about Raji's father. nice to read about that you give moral support to her..
    dont worry dear..he willbe recover soon &am also join your prayers
     

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