The role of Astrology/Horoscope match in your marriage life

[JUSTIFY]Hmm..its all about belief . I personally do believe in astrology but told by trusted people..not randomly anyone. My dad's cousin is very good astrologer. All my dad's family's horoscopes he takes care of. I started believing it from my +2. I don't completely depend on it. I just take it as reference. We trust my dad's cousin as he checks our horoscopes (no monetary business) and says what exactly is problem. What all he predicted from my +2 it was alll true. I sometimes even wonder how it became true. Once during my college placements there was a company which i liked and wanted to get into it. My uncle(dad's cousin told me I would get a job on 17h of july...but that company was coming on 13th of july...I was feeling bad I may not get into it... but not disheartened and I continued studying for that company to give it a try ...suddenly at the end moment it changed its date of campus placement to july 16th. And there I got into it on july 17th !!...many instances like this. Even he predicted my marriage exactly.... So i think i do believe but not completely dependant on it.
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Hi Tugga,

I personally don't believe astrology charts but I do believe Palmistry. I was said that I will not be able to do MBA and can't have a career which I never believed before and you know what happened now. Either a coincidence or palmistry works. I don't know.

My close friend's grand mom [Very reliable] saw palmistry as well as astrology charts...I mean matches for me and my fiance. Since he is a Christian, we made a chart for him and checked it. She told us about our career which was perfect. But when it came to love compatibility, she said..'Don't believe all this stuff. No astrologer can predict this perfectly. So go ahead and get married.' Not all astrologers say this openly. I tell you...mostly astrologers will be money minded and do not encourage inter-religious marriages. So will highlight only bad things in the charts. Don't believe them. If you feel disturbed, go for the remedies which is again a money making game but may give you a self-satisfaction.

Don't give importance to these stuffs. Take care!

 

Dear Tugga,
Personally I do not believe in this. What I believe in is Faith,hard work, honesty and "Karma" (If you do good ...good will come to you)

I have followed that and have gained many good things in life.

Try to google "The Law Of attraction" ....the author talks about how positive thinking and good expectations will bring that to your life and vice versa...so don't have bad thoughts and concentrate on the Good part of your life.

Everything will be fine.

Good Luck.
FL.

 

Tugga,

I've told this story before, but since you asked and I don't mind sharing it, here it is again...

My dh and his ex wife were married (arranged marriage) in 2003. Two different astrologers said their marriage was a 'match made in heaven' and that they were soooo perfect for each other. They fought like hell, hated each others guts, split in 2004, divorced in 2005.

My dh and I met in 2005, dated until 2007 when we married. My inlaws hated me from the start, and surprise surprise, they had a horoscope booklet done up for me and it came out HORRIBLE. Supposedly our marriage was doomed, my dh's health was at stake, financial problems, compatability problems, probably divorce... blah blah blah. Basically everything bad you can think of, it was in there. Today it is 2010 and we have been married over 3 years, together 5, which is way longer than my dh was ever with his so called 'perfect' ex.

I think in love marriages... the astrologers know who is paying their fees and prepare the chart accordingly. Meaning, if parents are against the match, I think it's more than just cooincidence that the match comes back 'bad'. I believe astrology is a bunch of psuedo science.

Moral of the story is.... why break your head over an astrology prediction that holds as much power as a flip of the coin or roll of the dice? If it says financial hardship.... ask yourself... does anyone ever go their whole life without some type of financial problems? Probably not! Does any couple go their whole life without some type of squabble? Probably not!

My crappy astrology chart is lying in a dumpster somewhere and I could care less what venom any astrologer pumps out on my mil's dime. I love proving that dumb chart wrong every morning I wake up next to the guy who loves me. We've had problems, we got through them.... which is more than I can say for him and his 'perfectly matched' ex.

Just something to think about. :thumbsup

 

I cannot tell for sure whether I believe or not. I kind of sit on the fence when it comes to belief in this subject. All this because of my experience.

My friend's sister's wedding was fixed for May 22nd 1991. Remember, what happened on that day on May 21st 1991???.........Rajiv Gandhi, assasinated.

Before the wedding one astrologer predicted that my friend's sister's wedding will be amidst lot of chaos and confusion and though they may find it impossible to have wedding that day but it will happen.
It happened exactly like he predicted. There was curfew in the city and the marriage was almost called off but out of the blue, one congress worker came in to ask the marriage hall to be evacuated. My friend's parents pleaded him to arrange for the groom to come from 5km distance where he was located. Finally, this guy felt pity and made arrangements and the knot was tied. They had to postpone all other misc. celebrations but atleast the main item was done.:thumbsup

I wonder why the same astrologer did not alert the PM on this. May be, because he did not have a look into the PM's birth chart......:hide:

Now, another astrologer, supposedly a famous one, predicted that my sister will have twin girls but my sister so far has 2 boys and her tubes are tied. He predicted my sister will have lot of trouble with inlaws and so some puja needs to be done for pariharam. My sister has arranged marriage and her hubby lost his mom when he was 12yrs and dad died 3yrs after son's marriage.....:bonk



So, with such contrasting predictions, I cannot strongly say I believe or not. May be I will take the good predictions and leave the bad ones.

 

Hi,
Me too believe in astrology to an extent...More than that there is a supreme power GOD.. He decides the decision for us...
Right from my studies, wedding, health, career everything was as per astrology..
My parents are much into astrology.

It was my final year BBM exams (April), in my grandma's house at Kerala we all gathered together (big family) since a famous Astrologer was coming home to predict my last uncle's wedding.. He was given a bunch of horoscopes including mine.. The astrologer told suddenly that uncle's wedding will be delayed, but there will be an engagement before May 30th..We were all surprised and was thinking whose engagement it will be, as my uncle is the only one who was ready for wedding and we all are still doing our final year semester...

It was all of sudden My wedding was fixed on July 13th and my engagement date was set for May 13th on my B'day:hide:
Then i started believing astrology to an extend.. Even the trip to kuwait he predicted so accurately, my laproscopy, my TTC journey everything...

Though i believe in astrology, i too strongly feel that God is the one who decides everything for us...and prayers can make wonders in life...

 

I too sit on the fence on this issue. There have been some correct predictions and some wrong predictions too. I only think of astrology if I am feeling too down and need some positive boost from someone who can tell me everything is fine, or this is only temporary everything will be fine etc. If I am doing fine, I keep away from astrology because I do not want to disturb my mind.

As Sharanya said, the ultimate deciding factor is God. The same science says that if you have enough faith in God, He will see that all these doshas do not touch you. :confused2: