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The ethics of faking an orgasm :-)

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by Rihana, Oct 4, 2012.

  1. PeacockLady

    PeacockLady Silver IL'ite

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    Being honest is the best approach but once in a while faking is fine.
     
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    freddycat Platinum IL'ite

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    Agree srisri.... I have to restrain myself. Other wise, some goody 2-shoes will give the lecture and threatening to IRS (internal reporting service). :roll:
     
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  3. steve

    steve Platinum IL'ite

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    Wonder if our culture influences us to prefer being honest by and large with spouses.

    I have a feeling that faking may be more beneficial. Experimentable :)
     
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  4. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    I've given up on responding to each response individually. Appreciate the responses. Why I started this thread was that the set of people who post here is so varied and opinions differ so much, and the responses in many threads are so well thought out. So, a light thread for responses on the topic from thoughtful peoples. :)

    I did put up some anticipatory bail ("only views on the topic solicited, no confessions") to avoid a troll alert call. But, so far, no calls. :) Guess, I have some history here... Umm... having 'history' is a good thing,right?

    That being said, let's stick to the moral/ethical aspect of it, and avoid specifics... those can be left to ehow.com and so on.

    it's kinda late now.. I forgot to request in first post that not-ladies identify themselves as being so, so their response can be read with that background in the forefront of the mind. :)
     
  5. sokanasanah

    sokanasanah IL Hall of Fame

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    Only if it happens in polynomial time. Otherwise all bets are off! :rotfl
    Sorry, couldn't resist joining the geek-fest. Blame Ragini25!

    PS: @Ragiini25 you can explain this to the non-techies here. You started it!
     
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    Pranjjal Gold IL'ite

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    :biglaugh:biglaugh
     
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  7. PeacockLady

    PeacockLady Silver IL'ite

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    Other than satisfying the male ego, faking doesn't have any other benefit. Instead of focusing on the moment, mind would be busy trying to fake it.

    Not all women are capable of having an orgasm every time they have sex. It is better to accept this fact. Not having an orgasm is not a bad thing for most women otherwise they wouldn't be faking it :)
     
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  8. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Prolly it is a fair payback for guys who (fake-ly) say 'we don't want dowry, we are against the practice', but actually expect it, and create a fuss if they don't receive it. :)

    But come to think of it, it is often the guy's parents who do this fake 'don't want' talking.... why do I get the feeling it is time to put this dowry-analogy to rest? :confused2:
     
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  9. steve

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    If I go on a limb and ask if these could be considered benefits:
    becoming a playmate
    more frequent and energetic encounters
    that he looks forward to it
    certain inhibitions get left at the door
    a higher level of communication about bedroom fantasies

    Not sure if they happen. They need a few other things. But I am of the view some of those things are in the realm of possibility. It's possible that some people would rather not want these kinda things. I can respect that.

    :rotfl I guess the faking is for him. May be she can get carried away and believe her own faking:) That'd be blissful :)
     
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    good comeback, that. Really... I mean sincerely.
     

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