Hi All , Just venting in the anonymity of the virtual world . I dont want to share this with family and friends. Background : Husband has an elder brother whose wife is a home maker ( by choice). I happen to have a job. My in laws have their US visas ( sponsored by us). Co sister's parents don't yet. The situation : We ( hubby and I ) were planning for in laws to visit us next summer.We would pay for their travel and take show them around here. Now BIL and Co-sis are expecting a baby in summer. Issue : If for some reason , her parents do not get the visa and my in laws have to go there to help them (they will probably not even come to our place) my husband still wants to pay for in laws' travel anyway. Me not too thrilled.