teachings !

we women , when we r growing up are given lots of teachings and have a set of rules to follow . In some of my friends home, they were encouraged to learn to cook, told that they should talk slowly, their laughter should be soft and not loud . besides the regular stuff when u get engaged to consider ur husband and his happiness as prime and try to be a good wife and dil and so many more such teachings.
i was lucky to be born in a family where we were taught to follow our dreams and were not forced to do anything but then also my grand mother always use to tell me what i was suppose to do as a girl

many of us have children and we are giving them good life besides passing on the knowledge we gained.
Today i was sent an email by a friend and i really liked it so would like to share with u all, not sure if this is the right forum, posting in this as i feel its something good to read. It goes like this :


" we need to teach our daughters to differentiate between
A man who flatters her and a man who compliments her,
A man who views her as a property and a man who views her properly.
A man who lusts after her and a man who loves and trusts her.
A man who believes he is god's gift to women and a man who remembers a woman was god's gift to man ,

BUT MOST IMPORTANT IS WE SHOULD TEACH OUR SON TO BE ONE SUCH MAN !!