Shocked beyond belief... I posted "worried about my mother" in one thread and decided I talk to my husband about the same. I thought what else is a partner for if we cant share our worries. I was totally wrong. He told me that after marriage, I should love him and my son more. He does not like me talking to my mom online and also thinks my mom shows fake love when she calls my son. He told me, if I cared to much, I should have stayed back in India and why did I have to return from the recent trip. He also said that he has not stopped anyone from coming to the US. He can afford to feed two people only and if "people" want to stay here.. it should be on their own dime not his. I cannot fathom a husband saying this. I am afraid and wondering what I should do next. I was not expecting this response. My friend told me, I am wasting my time with him. How can I take away a son from his father. Too many thoughts, too much confusion. Please help calm me down from this shock.