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Supreme Court Verdict On Section 377- My Understanding.

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    All of us or most of us face this dilemma. I hope and pray ultimately love triumphs everything else.
    @Viswamitra Sir,

    Thanks for this candid feedback. When I was a little girl, I thought that the transgenders were born only to the poor! Much later, past my teens, I read how the children with ambiguous gender are given away at birth by the parents to 'that' community or the adoption centres for the fear and complications faced in the society. It is heartening to note how unfortunate these children are! Still, the poorer communities accept them far easily compared to the middle and the rich class. Transgender spokesperson Lakshmi Tripathi's videos and talks are an eye opener! Laughing at the effeminate was a natural thing for us then, but now it's time to change our paradigms and broaden our horizons to include all the children of God into the fabric of the society.
    Recently, a female police constable from Beed district in Maharashtra ran from pillar to post to change the sex to male and also retain the constable's job. Luckily, he succeeded. 2 days ago, another case was published in the newspapers about a child with ambiguous genitalia born to a poor muslim family and raised as a girl till the age of 5. Now, after a doctor diagnosed otherwise, that child's surgical transformation has started!
     
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    Thanks for the inputs, @BerryPine. I wish the integration begins without much resistance.
     
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    Yes, finally!

    Thanks for the cheerful feedback, @yellowmango
     
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    Dear Smt. GeetaKashyap,

    I always admire your openhearted posts here. There is so much I learn from your posts. Even every sentences you write here I carefully read to learn something new. You are right. There is no age limit to learn to love people as they are. It is heartbreaking to see the struggle the Eunuchs and Transgenders go through in life living separately supporting each other. I can't stop admiring how they come up in life in spite of lack of community support financially, psychologically and emotionally. Parents giving up children because of the fear of backlash from the society is outright wrong and difficult to digest.

    I am sure if we continue to learn to love people as they are, it is not that hard to reach the stage when we would accept our own family members if they happened to be part of LGBTQ. Thank you as always, for your wonderful contributions to this little community here.

    Viswa
     
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    Aww...thank you for the acknowledgement, @Viswamitra Sir. It looks like we are becoming members of the mutual admiration society here! :beer-toast1: I too admire your intellectual articles and the honest stand you take, irrespective of what others have to say.:clap2: One more ex-blogger has a lot of good things to say about you!:)

    You summed it up well!:thumbup:
     
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    The first step is the 'coming out' process. Many do not dare to disclose, instead choose to remain in the safety closet due to fear of being disowned by their own family and close friends, for the shame and humiliations they might face outside. In other cases, despite the care and understanding, there is a lack of open support due to peer pressure from the society. Scrapping the law hopefully encourages more people of fluidity to identify boldly who they are, now that there is constitutional back up. To change the law and to change mentalities are different things. In a country where honor killing against hetero love marriages is still prevailing to our horrors, social acceptance of LGBTQ+ love is going to take a while. Nevertheless a progressive step towards inclusion and equality.

    Good riddance, my congratulations. Celebrate Love (alike). :beer-toast1:

    Thank you for the discussion space GK, much appreciated. :thumbsup:
     
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    Thanks, kaniths, for your analytical feedback. I agree 100% with you.
     
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    :hello:To comprehend what is it about I had to read numerous times, voluminous data in google and the news paper including THE HINDU.
    2. Yes I agree with the views of @kaniths in toto - a step forward but a long way to go before society accepts them as they are I mean orientation to remain lesbian or gay or bi or queer.
    3. The news paper reports among Indian states, UP remains at the top for maximum number of arrest under the IPC sec 377. Probably it was more remunerative and or lucrative for some. It is now bound to diminish if not eliminated.
    4. Off shoots to this 5-0 judgement is difficult to imagine right now but time alone would answer it. Media and government for maintain. Neutral stand till the day of judgement. Political Parties too except communist (Marxist) chosen to remain fence sitting.
    5. During my tenure in erstwhile Bombay now Mumbai, every Sunday morning I used to see the eunuchs dressed like angels with all embellishment and accessories with clap of their hand demand money and would not accept anything less than a fiver. I have seen them in box as a group watching movies at aurora cinema at matunga, king’s circle. I have seen them escorting an accident victim to hospital.
    6. Once I was at the wheels awaiting my friend from hotel on a Sunday. A group of eunuchs encircled my jeep and demanded money. The person demanding was almost breathing over my shoulder.. I told boss would be coming shortly. Next moment my friend JK came there hesitantly wanted to TAKE U turn. But they caught him and he took out his stout purse from back pocket of his trouser. The leader of the gang snatched the purse from him and taken out just two ten rupee notes from it though it contained several denominations of currency. The gang all together said “Dhanya Vadh” while the leader returned the purse to JK. A STUNNED JK & I were staring as the gang approached another parked vehicle all clapping their hands. At another city, there was separate queue for male and female for purchase show ticket. A group of three eunuchs ignored the queue for men & demanded tickets at the counter. Some one in queue protested whence one of them answered back there is no separate queue for them!
    7. Great wow post From you - quite a work for doctoral thesis! Hats off to you and other active readers and their meaningful contribution. I enjoyed reading them all.
    Thanks and Regards.
    God Bless all creation equally and just and RIGHT.
     
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    Thyagarajan Sir,
    The Hindi channel video that I have posted gives quite a good idea, in brief. Amir Khan's video essentially makes one understand and sympathise. The other article is for those who want to understand in totality. As you pointed, I too think unless one wants to understand the total legal ramifications and implications, it can be quite cumbersome to go through the entire material.

    Somewhere a beginning had to be made and at least after 71 years of India's independence a step forward has been taken. Let's wait and watch, how the society changes.

    Yes, Mumbai has a huge number of eunachs and many of them are South Indians! According to a friend, a large number of Kannadiga and Marathas are the castrated kind; the devotees of Soundatti Yellamma. There are also some false kind, who are there to make some easy money off begging. The North Indian culture believes that their blessings work. Perhaps this encouragement makes them forcibly extract money from the families of newborns, newly weds etc.

    Unless they are loud, they may not get a chance in this cruel world. Sometime back, I read that the metro in Tamilnadu tried to hire them in large numbers. But the locals were unhappy and refused to rent them houses etc. Finally in frustration, they quit the jobs and went back to their traditional ways. In between there were reports that some banks tried to hire them for loan recovery!

    Yet there are some who have become activists, academicians and politicians!

    Thanks for being here and sharing your thoughts.
     
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