Super Super Stressed..

Feel free to post in IL.
I too cook 3 times a day. Pack my husband's lunch and hand it to him at 8 :30 am.
There is no spoiling in it.
What's wrong in a family eating healthy food

 

We all have gone (or will be going) through similar situations in life. We have to move forward no matter what. Everyone has some problems. We have to have enough courage to face it. We cannot be emotionally down for each and every thing. We have to do what is important for us and our family. We should not live for others.

 

Yes me too cook three times a day and pack lunch for my kid by 6 in the morning. there is nothing wrong in it. I love doing it and they are very happy too.

 

This is my friend story.
She was happy being a homemaker.
They tried some online business. It didn't work. Got into debt.
Her husband has an ok IT job.
She now does babysitting to pay off the debts.
She got the job through nextdoor app.
A nice American couple pays her 20$/hr.
Look Into babysitting.

 

I wfh part time . Iam my kids parent CNA.
I do research and attend workshops some days when she is in school.
My kid has special needs.
I didn't take a full time job which would cause stress for me.
Of course my husband's high pay let's me do this.

 

Op

many working women want to be in your place. I want to be in your place. My heart is crying every day to spend quality time with my kids who are teenagers now. They don’t need me now. But when they needed me I had to leave them in daycares and go to work everyday in tears. My husband was not supportive or responsible for finances. He was sending all savings to his parents sister for their luxury and made me beg for basic necessities. Your husband is not penny pinching or controlling or dominating or abuser. Then You should support him right now. More opportunities will come. U have car and money to go gym or your shopping. My husband didn’t give me all this

 

@anika987 .this friend tells me , she is waiting for the day when she can relax and watch movies at home