Guys..got a job.not a big salary but some Benefits.Its 8.30am to 3 pm.it is half hour drive to and fro. Recently hubby got a good salary hike and other perks and he works crazy to establish himself.Last year he had a drastic job change and this salary hike is a ego boost to him. A problem has cropped up.. I need to inform the manager if am taking up the job and he wants me to come in tomorrow to meet another manager so that can make the final decision. Today my kid fell sick and the school made me pick her up..she is home right now and Has fever.She can’t go to School tomorrow.I asked my hubby if he can work from home Tomorrow and he blasted me on phone. He said he is in a high stress job already,trying to prove himself and works one and half hours away from home.Also,at this time he cannot work from home as his team needs him.For emergency stuff related kid,he cannot make it and help and he does not want me to take up any job until kids grow up.He was extremely angry.He says he can’t step down in this time of his career and he wants me to understand that. Am facing a lot of mental stress these days.To top it..my fate I keep meeting people who trigger me.A lady in my fitness center keeps cribbing that I should take up a job and only then kid will respect me and that my husband is not understanding enough to accommodate. By mistake,I told this to my husband and he was furious..he simply told me that I can take all the money, leave the kid with him and go back to India or wherever I want and look for the best job and please the world.If I talk about job more time until daughter grows up, he will Divorce me. one thing led to another and I told him if the other guys can accommodate and work around wife schedule why can’t you?He still calmly said their work Life or priorities or commute maybe different.. I could not let it go..fight went on for a while,words exchanged and He just banged the phone down. I am stunned. I am happy at home but somehow I cringe when some people are constantly annoying me as to why am working or not..even had women say I wish I was at home like you so I don’t need to Do anything.. It’s been few days since I have cooked anything properly and today hubby is upset,kid is sick now..my stress level and his is sky high.. I have to call the manager and said I can’t make it..I am so scared I will never find a a job again after many years.. Very tired of explaining myself to others.Every woman is mostly a working woman. honestly am not even thinking right now..am fuming and super stressed.