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  1. Sep 9, 2014 #1
    Mitru8448

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    Hey hi..
    I joined the just today in order to sort my friend's issue. we are childhood friends.
    She is married and she has a kid. her husband is very good person.She is undergoing a serious issue now. She was molested by a person during our school times and after years , they started speaking via emails.
    The boy was already married to his relative and they too have kid.
    Though they are in touch in emails, they recently started flirting each other.
    This has been noticed by the boy's wife.
    Though my friend has no serious intentions on him, she feels embarrassed and guilty. please advise if she reacts / tells to my friend's relatives, how should she come out of this issue.

    She told that she loves her family very much and she doesn't have any intentions with that boy. Infact That boy induced her to speak like that.
    She told that she thought of taking revenge for the (molest stuff). That's she spoke to him like that it seems.. I am confused.

    On one point, It is so pity to see the boy;s wife situation,. She literally abusing my friend very badly.
    Kindly advice how to solve this issue,
    This should not affect my friend;s life.
     
    Mitru8448, Sep 9, 2014
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  2. Sep 9, 2014 #2
    Radhai

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    revenge for molestation is flirting with the molester?!
     
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    Mommie007

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    Don't know who is more sick in the head.. The man who molested a girl.. Or the girl trying to have an affair with the man that molested her.. Crazy world we live in!!!]
     
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    tashidelek2002

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    Is a Monday troll a mole?
     
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    1Sandhya

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    Stan would know. Lets ask him!
     
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    Radhai

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    My prayers got answered. Of all the days, Monday deserves the fun!
     
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    yellowmango

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    Your friend is upto no good and she is a cheat.
    Don't trust her words either about the revenge bit or the molesting bit.People don't chit chat and flirt with their molestors behind their spouse's back.
    Looks like your friend is enjoying her blunder ......
     
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    sdiva20

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    LOL :rotfl:rotflseems about the right response to a molester

     
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    Weasly

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    So many loopholes in this case! seems like somebody trying to gain sympathy by stating molestation, once caught flirting !!
     
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    pear

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    Why put a name to a relationship that shouldn't be there in the first place.Ask your friend to find something worth doing with her life.

    Lead your life reducing such complicated characters for your own peace of mind.No need to feel responsible for others mistakes.
     
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