Hi, I have been married for 3.5 years and have 2.5 years old kid. Working in IT sector in Chennai. During wedding, my husband was working as chef, after 4 months of marriage, came to know that, he was not working in any place and left job. This was his habit it seems. He is alcoholic and have the habit of using HANS. I have talked with his father regarding this at that time, he said he will take care of his son. Later, his father opened one automobile spare parts selling shop and asked his. Son to sit in it. I objected that, since he. Was a chef, at least a hotel can be opened. But their family won't listen to anyone generally. My husband black mailed me in multiple ways by hitting and using abusive words to get loans and he pledged my 50 sovereign of gold also. Loan amount was around 10 lakhs. I was fearing badly , not able to tolerate his behaviour like spitting on face, hitting my head on wall. Many times complained to his father, next 2 days things will be little OK., after that he will beat for complaining to his father also. I don't have any brother and. No father. My son is growing with my. Mom and I take him only on week. Ends to my place where me and my husband living. Before 10days, he took. My son on evening to our home and drunken and slept. Since he was not picking call, I asked my younger sister to visit . She saw, my son was standing near gate and crying and saw my husband was sleeping without conscious. She took my son to mom's place. My husband woke up late and called me, saying someone kidnapped baby, he is not available. There was no regret for Losing child In his words,. I was coming back from office at that time. He was threatening to kill me after I said baby is safe. He shows as good guy face to everyone, since my sister saw him. In drunken state, he was much angry. I know at that time, going home is. Not safe to me and I called in laws to control their son. But they said, we can talk tomorrow morning, feeling sleepy. I went to mom's place that day with the fear of getting beaten up. I have beared all the harrasment just for my child, but travelling in 2 wheeler and staying with alcoholic person is dangerous to his life. So want to decide which is safe for his future. My relatives called his dad to have discussion, that guy was saying, my son didn't borrowed any. Money through your daughter and he was not having alcohol habit before wedding. That girl only. Compelled my son to drink and made him like this. Full of false statements, also saying I am Having affair in office. He is not ready for discussion. Now they want me to Quit my job(which is my only financial source), and have to stay with them. His son will not work, so in-laws will give some Money forFood and shelter. We know, that is also lie only. I am a M. S graduate, my mother in law and sister in-law were already treating me like slaves when ever I visit. There is no safety for me and son in their house. They are kind of rowdy family. I have to pay the loan amount which they enjoyed. I know, I am a fool to lend this much money for not worthy person. But, didn't expected this much of lies from them. Now, they want my son, just to threaten me. We have locked up house all day to save him from them. What kind of steps I can take on them, is it possible to have full custody of child , is it possible to recover any of my jewel which is in their home. Please suggest.