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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by infinitehopes, Feb 17, 2009.

Did suggestions given to you by other ILites help you solve the problem?

Poll closed Mar 19, 2009.
  1. Yes

    20 vote(s)
    90.9%
  2. No

    2 vote(s)
    9.1%
  1. Spiderman1

    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    Re: IndusLadies and its influences on your marriage - What is the impact?

    They did the "relevant" on mine :), which actually answers your question :)

    http://www.indusladies.com/forums/community-chit-chat/94660-i-love-you-all-special.html

    I strongly urge for Ms.True's thread to remain in Relationships forum. It is RELEVANT to this forum. (Mine can remain in chit-chat since it is already done deal).
     
  2. lovelydoll

    lovelydoll Senior IL'ite

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    Re: IndusLadies and its influences on your marriage - What is the impact?

    :hiyadefinitely Indus ladies has an impact.
    the whole community stands for a person for help with its suggestions, advices and consoling words.
    even the tips are very useful, some times I try them with my DH.
    I am married for 21 months and this new adaptation to new mentality is a struggle.
    when I find posts here similar to mine, I feel this is all in the married life accept and go on ........ to my destiny
    thanks cute ladies :cheers
     
  3. Tridev

    Tridev Silver IL'ite

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    Re: IndusLadies and its influences on your marriage - What is the impact?

    Indus ladies is a great place, though not aware of who is posting the problem, but we all learn from experience, from knowledge around. Indus ladies is one of my favourite sites. Its not just marriage forum, but if we see other forums the are so valuable. Really its marvellous.
     
  4. RadiantCat

    RadiantCat Gold IL'ite

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    Re: IndusLadies and its influences on your marriage - What is the impact?

    IL has given me:


    • Clarity of mind
    • Acceptance.
     
  5. Malavika81

    Malavika81 Bronze IL'ite

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    Re: IndusLadies and its influences on your marriage - What is the impact?

    True, for me it has given more insight into the Indian arranged marriages and all the associated issues. It is more of an educational experience to me more than anything and I am trying to comprehend the dynamics of Indian marriages (especially the arranged ones) and the roles in-laws et al play in a marriage. Some of the issues that used to sound very outlandish and atrocious to me initially and I am slowly getting an idea of how the system works.
     
  6. sowmyar

    sowmyar New IL'ite

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    Re: IndusLadies and its influences on your marriage - What is the impact?

    Oh yes. IL has been a true Godsend for me in more ways than one. Particularly since I joined/started participating when I was facing the lowest lows of my marital life.

    What IL gave me:

    • Support and empathy
    • Varied perspectives on problems, and the whys and hows of it
    • Options/advice on what steps I could take

    Most importantly I think the fact that one gets vent to a (mostly :)) non-judgmental audience in itself is a significant positive of posting here on IL.

    Oh yes IL rocks!
     
  7. Priya_Mommy

    Priya_Mommy Gold IL'ite

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    Re: IndusLadies and its influences on your marriage - What is the impact?

    mstrue,
    So, here is the question on Indusladies website's influence on one's married life.
    I would say it has given me problem solving skills around me with courage. It gave me to think in different direction ratherthan single angle. Now whenever I hear about my maid's problems at her homefront or any cousin's problems or any friend's problem I made them to be courageous in questioning about whts wrong!!! I made them to get clarity of mind, will try to ask them to accept changes in their life before and after marriage.

    Yes, Now I am able to see the problems at a next level(Expert level) ratherthan a naive level.
     
  8. shakambari

    shakambari Platinum IL'ite

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    Re: IndusLadies and its influences on your marriage - What is the impact?

    IL has influenced me-

    I have learnt that my problems are minimal when compareds to that of so many others. This has made me more resilient and positive .

    I am able to goin a deeper insight int issues plagueing women in general when they are married and am able to think out solutions or ways of acceptance and getting on with life.
     
  9. flowerlady

    flowerlady IL Hall of Fame

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    Re: IndusLadies and its influences on your marriage - What is the impact?

    Indusladies has helped me a lot in venting my feelings, posting threads and getting responses.
    It also showed me that the problems remain the same more or less , regardless of the age , education, earning capabilities and environment of the poster . I am not alone cribbing ,others also get irritated by the same things . This has definitely made me happy.
    This forum is like Chicken Soup For the Soul /Married life makes you know that you are not the only one blessed with a wayward DH or a bully for a life partner there are worse cases around !!
     
  10. shakambari

    shakambari Platinum IL'ite

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    Re: IndusLadies and its influences on your marriage - What is the impact?

    Thats a good one ,Flowerlady.
     

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