Dear Chocolate, Yes.. I had seen your responses to other posts and kind of understood your story. But thank you for putting it here for better understanding. I definitely admire your courage. I feel, it takes a lot of guts to call police to compain about someone within the family. Its a very fine line when "its ok" changes to "its not ok".. Many people cannot do that transition but you did it successfully. I am sure the support extended by ILites must have helped and thats another reason you are so willing to help everyone who posts a problem here.. because you know helping through IL community helps!! Thanks again for posting. This experience must have made you a lot wiser in a moment but I am sure one day you will be able to forget this entire episode and lead a very happy and fulfilling life. My best wishes for you!