my son 4 years goes to preschool 3 days. Rest 2 days he makes our life horrible. I feel like my health is deteriorating, we fight a lot. He gets up with phone, does not do anything till 11 am. I am the only who keep yelling to brush or try to feed but he keeps glued to phone. this is almost everyday storey so for a 4 years old it is 2-3 hrs in the morning, then later afternoon and once sister comes. It is mininum> 1 hr phone/tv each time. He has become really stubborn and cry till he breaks or till he gets, and really annoying, not scared of anything. His dad is the weak one and gives us up before putting up fight. Either this way or that way, or he himself will scream like hell and say all the bad words he should not. " i will kill you' , will lock u, will cut you... Now, i am really into full time daycare but problem is i do not like his daycare. Almost every 2 weeks, they will close the daycare or classroom last minute. They have shortages and teachers problems. No one stays more than a month. also there were other problems with teachers. It is not cheap daycare. Infact most expensive one in the area i know.. compared to that services are very poor. Our reason was- near house and also only daycare that we could find. I am not able to find spot in any other day care with in 5-6 miles. So I am not sure how to deal now.