Autistic/ADHD/ASD/PSD/ADD etc etc etc..so many labels.. As much as it is important for early intervention..many cases have been wrongly diagonised orclaimed "risk for high autism". Milestones do differ from child to child.some may excel in certain skills and some may delay.All in all no two kids can be the same.If a certain milestone has not been reached..the parents are made to feel frustrated and depressed as they immediately feel their dd or dh is autistic.It is good to be aware however,these days it is a bit too much. the list which is given cannot be reached by all kids at the same time.Even we adults are slow,sometimes rude and blunt etc(symptoms of autism!) so can we say we are all under the autism syndrome? Each child is special and some are slow in some things and some are fast.unless there are extreme symptoms , we should not really segregate or label our child.it is painful. Nowadays,to get married is a pain the neck and then conceive itself is a big issueand on top of it,parents are not able to enjoy their children's cuteness.all the time tension.has she reached this milestone,has she spoken,has she pointed etc etc etc.. things are getting worse. sometimes ignorance seems bliss. thank god we are in this generation.next generation..the stress level will be super crazy for sure!! PLEASE STOP LABELING OUR CHILDREN.THEY ARE SPECIAL GIFTS TO US.