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Sterilization A Must For The Mentally Challenged Girls

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by sunkan, Oct 18, 2007.

  1. sunkan

    sunkan Gold IL'ite

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    Sterilization is a must for mentally challenged girls:

    I feel the female are anywhere subjected to sexual assault. Everywhere in the world the mentally challenged are more vulnerable, as they do not realize what it is to fight against, they will love music and may be sex too as it stimulates the mind and may not be aware of being taken for a ride.

    When we have small girls we need to teach them what is the right touch and what is not, to help them help themselves when we are around and not around, many uncles and siblings and any male species who are more prone to these habits of playing around with girl child.

    Many a time medically we keep sedatives for this category of children from becoming very aggressive, and so they are defenseless when anything is done to them. These children also never tell others if they are enjoying the act and there by exposing themselves to carrying unwanted babies…

    Though the medical science and parents do know about it they are actually not doing anything towards such things, until it is very late. Like many evil in our life this is also a major one to be tackled in the first priority section, as like diabetic this particular medical problem is also on the increase, and we need to look around a lot.

    With parents both working this situation is actually getting out of hand, with ayahs and others taking care of the child, all these things done to them with force and no limit when anything done with an animal instinct the child dies, as they are very young to pinpoint any of these things.
    Regards sunkan
     
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  2. Vysan

    Vysan Gold IL'ite

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    Dear Sunkan,


    It is really sad... But it is really true... There are many sex starved creatures in this world... I dont want to call them human beings... They exploit any given opportunity to satisfy their lust...

    When I was doing my school my neighbour had one daughter who was mentally challenged... Both husband and wife were working... Husband in far off place ... I knew how difficult it was for them to handle their daughter (Who is no more now..).. Those days, I used to be afraid of that girl... It took me some time to reconcile and talk to that girl without reservations...

    I know, it is a sorry state of affairs.... It really hurts me to talk more on this topic...
    In this world where even the normal girls are exploited, for these girls, it will be difficult to cope up with...

    But is Sterilisation is the solution....???? It is my question.... Dont you think that we should protect them from these sort of leeches... Though I can understand what you want to convey, I find it hard to digest ....
     
  3. sunkan

    sunkan Gold IL'ite

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    dear veda,
    how do we protect them, they are not even aware of what is happening until it is too late for the parents to know what has happened, and sex is stimulating so they wont even inform the parent of something funny going on...so the best way is to make them safe, and not go through the trauma of getting to know at 5 months about it, as most mentally challenge eat too much and most are very fat for you to find out whether they are pregnant at all..sunkan
     
  4. Malathijagan

    Malathijagan Silver IL'ite

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    Dear Sungan,
    I feel more than getting the mentally ill sterilised, it is the responsibility of the welfare homes to protect them from such misfortunes. Veliye payirai meidal yaaridam poi azhuvadhu?
    And if the mentally ill are seen around the streets it is the responsibility of us citizens to inform the concerned authorities or some welfare homes to take them into their custody. The government too has an important role to play in this matter. Sterilisation would partly solve the problem by protecting them from unwanted pregnancies but outraging their modesty without their willful consent is equally a sinful act and persons doing such acts should be given the harshest of punishments by Law.
     
  5. sunkan

    sunkan Gold IL'ite

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    dear malathy,
    i dont think u have had the experience at close quarters with these children they dont realise what is good and what is not, yella yedathilum nalla buddi ullavarkey veli meyaradu atleast we can help these children from getting the to avoid the pain of babies, and they are socially shunned so they are alone and seek any company whereby fall a prey to them. no law available, don't we see so many girl child being killed after rape because they will identify the person.

    it is the people who are very close do these things, and stimulation stops them from taking help, so they hide and in the end the child suffers..i have seen these, that is why wrote here about it...sunkan
     
  6. Moonbeams

    Moonbeams Bronze IL'ite

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    I totally agree with Sunkan maam......
     
  7. bindunaidu

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    Such a disturbing topic...

    I remember an incident from my school days.There was a girl, a street child, who lived on the pavements near our school. She was mentally retarded..

    i would see her everyday on my way to school..She was a very quiet and harmless little girl who would take whatever money or food was offered to her.

    She became pregnant..She was just a child..about our age..thirteen or fourteen..not more..and was also retarded.. Either she was raped or her innocence was exploited..

    the image of that little girl walking around with a huge belly ,has stayed with me to this day.

    what sort of men do these things? It is they who need compulsory sterilisation:mad:
     
  8. sunkan

    sunkan Gold IL'ite

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    dear bindu,
    life's reality is very bitter, u talk abt the girl of 13 and 14, now they are raped when 3 and 4, and death is inevitable as they kill them so they dont inform abt them,,have a heart atleast if sterilisation will save other agonies..sk
     
  9. Sriniketan

    Sriniketan IL Hall of Fame

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    I agree with you Sunkan in this regard, sterilisation will be the first step to help those victims from falling prey to those 'animals'.
    It is the duty of the society and the govt. to take precautionary steps to protect those girls!
    It is sad that nobody cares!

    sriniketan
     
  10. roopadadia

    roopadadia Silver IL'ite

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    I completely agree with Sunkan.

    If sterilised atleast these girls will not have to bear the brunt of what they had to go thru when they were exploited physically.

    As they are mentally challenged they can't differenciate between the right & the wrong.

    Also steps need to be taken for safe guarding their respect. But you never know when and how things happen as if its an insider how can the govenment or for that reason anyone can help these girls.

    Roopa.
     

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