I want senior memebers to please help and give advise. So, Chithramadam, Varalottisir, Varloo,Kamala and others please help my friend. My friend and husband are both highly qualified. Arranged marriage, they love each other and have no money or employment problems. He is workaholic and in high post. Married for over eight years. Husband and wife (my friend) love each other very much. But husband is Gandhian. He refuses to have baby with wife because he feels there is too much cruelty in the world. Also refuses to adopt. My friend wants a baby her own or adopted. She is slowly losing her mind and is turning to religion and social work. What should she do? Stay in marriage or divorce?