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So I Finally Figured Out What Makes Him Happy

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rakhii, Aug 9, 2018.

  1. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    More than a decade of being married to him, I figured this out. Phew! Still a hit or miss sometimes, but here is my list. please feel free to add yours and it will help us all.

    1. Good food (if I cant cook, just order something)
    2. Cold beer (he starts an argument, ask, 'hey hon, would you like cold beer?)
    3. Good XXX
    4. Taking interest in the things he likes/ hobbies.
    5. Peanuts...buy lots of them
    6. Game of Thrones (hey, shall we binge watch GoT after kids go to sleep; always puts a smile on his face).
    7. Tell him that he still looks very attractive...

    Come to think of it, seems so simple. It took me a decade to figure this secret out! damn...the wasted years.
     
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    Men are pretty simple creatures!
     
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    Congratulations :thumbup: Thanks for sharing this Holy Grail :number_one: which will serve as a beacon of light for many IL's for generations to come. Definitely a good place to start and build upon :)
     
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    ashima10 Platinum IL'ite

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    did you clean the house ? avoid word “again”... it’s sparkling .

    makes him happy even though he knows it’s pure sarcasm .

    Simple creatures you know !
     
  6. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    10. You are so right! (the times that he is actually right about something, say this; i mean, who doesnt like to hear that they are right?

    11. Avoid, I told ya! you didnt listen. This serves no purpose.
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    Oh krisha, you will get the hang of it. Its all evolving though. It just keeps changing but just try; thats all it takes. Just try. Small things like his favourite snack etc.

    Thing is, when I do all these, he makes it a point to slowly reciprocate in his own way. So its a win win in a relationship. Nothing is fake. just genuine appreciation for him.
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    I am waiting for your tip :)
     
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    12. What would I do? Where would I be? Without you I would be totally lost. (Basically you are my hero is the idea we need to convey).

    Happiness reflected back will be directly proportional to genuineness conveyed in your tone when you say it :D
     
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    13. It's been long.why don't you hang out with your friends or invite them over.
     

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