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Discussion in 'Life Without Spouse' started by Awife, Dec 23, 2014.

  1. Awife

    Awife Bronze IL'ite

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    This thread is similar to a thread before but it is for single Moms.

    • Is it possible in our Indian society for a single mom to find a man and get remarried?
    • Will ONLY single dads approach for marriage?
    • Will never married guys marry a single mom?
    • Should a single mom get remarried when her baby is very young (an infant) OR when the baby becomes old enough to understand?
     
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  2. guesshoo

    guesshoo IL Hall of Fame

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    Yes, I've known a couple of single moms get married even way back in the 80s. One, I am certain, married a never married man. I have a friend who was divorced with a child and married someone who was never married before too.

    about when it is best to get married, it doesn't have anything to do with the age of the child. It depends on where one is in life, whether they have found the right person, etc. if the child is older, of course the child should be convinced that the new person in their life will each out for them.
     
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  3. Twinkel

    Twinkel Platinum IL'ite

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    My grandmother's younger sister, widowed mom of two, married a never married before man (love marriage). When it can happy in that generation, it can happen now too. One of my cousins, divorced and mom of 4 year old, married a never married before guy (arranged marriage).
     
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    panda2014 Silver IL'ite

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    Really nice to know .So was the never married guy on the same social strata financially?
     
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    Twinkel Platinum IL'ite

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    yes. They are.
     
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    ivlakshmi Platinum IL'ite

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    one of my cousin lost her husband.. Her daughter was in months when she lost her husband.. After 3years she got married to a divorcee guy .He is taking care of her and her daughter very well like own daughter.
     
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    panda2014 Silver IL'ite

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    She is really lucky then... what about his looks then ?

    coz i saw a recent baand baaja bride season 5 where in the first episode we saw a dicorcee lady with a 8 yr old kid getting married to a guy...look wise they seem really strange...so
     
  8. Awife

    Awife Bronze IL'ite

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    Nice to see that our society is changing. I have not seen any such example in my vicinity. It is still difficult for me to digest the fact that never married guys will do arranged marriage with a single mother in India where the single mom does not have to compromise on anything (groom's salary, looks, etc).
     
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    tashidelek2002 IL Hall of Fame

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    If you want people to be broadminded about your situation, I suggest you start being broadminded yourself.
     
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  10. StrongLady

    StrongLady Silver IL'ite

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    It is not easy but not impossible
    yes in arranged matches single dad's or divored will.
    Never married only in love marriage.
    Better to get married when baby small

    QUOTE=Awife;3464206]This thread is similar to a thread before but it is for single Moms.

    • Is it possible in our Indian society for a single mom to find a man and get remarried?
    • Will ONLY single dads approach for marriage?
    • Will never married guys marry a single mom?
    • Should a single mom get remarried when her baby is very young (an infant) OR when the baby becomes old enough to understand?
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