Do you remember last year SIL asked her kids to ask my husband for the same toys as my daughter? Well we give it. Now this time they demanded an iPad/tablet. I wasn’t having any of it because my own kids don’t have one. My in-laws don’t talk to me (which hurts and are really fake). I’m the choti bahu. My husband has one sister and one big brother both married. Well…I wrote on the WhatsApp group that we couldn’t afford to give it because we are saving for a house and my kids don’t have one either. Husband was upset and removed himself from the group. Husbands elder brother (who hates me) removed me from the group. Even though I deleted the message before his parents or sister read it. The only person that read it was elder brother in law and his wife. My husband doesn’t know his brother removed me (not that he would care). But I was really offended. Like they all gossip so much about SILs husband being lazy and not buying things on purpose so her parents and siblings would buy for her. But honestly they were talking the mick. My husband video calls them and they want everything we have! Send this that the other. I felt like the tablet/iPad idea was too much and how would my own kids feel? My brother in law is financially well off but I feel like he loves causing drama.