Siblings - Narcissistic Attitude

For a narcissist just answering NO will be like "NAMAKU ORU ADIMAI SIKITANDA" (Can someone translate this Tamil statement to English)

 

You can translate it yourself? Or need one adimai to sikku for translation?

 

I could not come up with the exact equivalent statement in English anyway OP's name looks like a Tamil name and she can understand the statement, @netflx looks like you are still in this mode Will The Central Government Ever Stop Pushing Hindi On Tamil Nadu ?

 

Vedhavalli, you need to show her that you are unaffected of her tantrums. If she asks what you are doing for Diwali, just tell “ oh nothing much” .... If she tells that you are hiding from her, just tell” oh, yhea, hmmm, anything else? Will call you later?”... You need to show that you are really cold and indifferent to her childish behavior... If she tells that she does everything better than you, just tell her” yhea, of course, anything else? Will call you later.. bye”!

 

No she is testing your limits and see how much you tolerate and adjust her strategy on how she is going to handle you in the future

 

This is ridiculous she is spoiling your happiness on festive seasons, you should not have attended her calls for one week during Diwali