Hi friends , I have an 11 months old baby and am currently in maternity leave. Currently I am staying abroad with my husband and baby.But,in a couple of months I am returning to India to join my job.My husband is staying back abroad for almost a year longer.In India, I am planning to entrust my DD in MIL's care but am worried about few things. Till the baby was 5 months I was staying with my in-laws (post delivery) and husband was not in India. At that time my MIL was always trying to control how DD was to be handled. She also instigated my FIL against me and both of them had repeatedly faught with me and verbally abused me.They also complained against me to my husband(over phone) that I am too possessive about my baby. I literally fled from India to escape their daily tantrums. But now I am in a serious dilemma.My husband is not ready to return to India with me until his assignment here is completed. I have to stay in India with my DD and in-laws. I really want to rejoin office as I have worked since last 7 years and sitting at home (that too with my bossy MIL) is like a nightmare.But should I TRUST my DD with my MIL ? In the past(from DD's birth to 5 months) if I had ever gone out from home, MIL has done things like: 1. Removing hand support from DD's neck when she was yet to gain neck control 2. Trying to potty train her at 2.5 months 3. Leaving DD alone in bed 4. Taking DD out without my permission 5. Leaving DD in wet cloth nappy while MIL was completing her evening puja. I agree that no person can be 100% perfect in handling a baby but I am also scared of multiple lies told by both my MIL and FIL.Whenever they get caught doing something wrong, they tell lies to defend themselves. Now the options which i have are : 1. Rejoin job and give second chance to in-laws. 2. Leave my job and be a stay-at-home mom. This will be extremely depressing for me as I have to tolerate my MIL's constant bossing and I also donot want to be financially dependent on my husband What do I DO ? I am really confused. PS: Cannot get help from my parents as my mother is no more and my Dad is Alzheimer's patient and is currently in a special care facility. Cannot keep caretaker for DD as in-laws will not allow that.