I have lost a lot of weight and am quite fit now.people say that I should start wearing sexy clothes.To be honest,when i first came to usa i tried all the fashions,shorts,mini skirts etc.it did suit me but i felt so conscious and uncomfortable.I now wear stylish,fashionable fitted clothes but not revealing.people say iam wasting my new look and beauty won't last hence flaunt it.some people annoy me that i do not have the guts. I am too confused.should i try out wearing shorts and tank tops again? It suits me but i feel conscious. what are your thoughts? we live life once..should i just get out of my comfort zone?