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Should I Divorce My Husband?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by nisha86, Nov 10, 2020.

  1. Minion

    Minion Gold IL'ite

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    We are here to give honest advice OP as she is facing a serious dilemna - rather than just to speak whatever sounds nice , and that is what he has done.We should do the same rather than judging others for their advice , outright.

    Even the current US president Trump has lot advice it does not mean it is a great advice

    Transcript: Donald Trump’s Taped Comments About Women (Published 2016)
     
  2. nakshatra1

    nakshatra1 Platinum IL'ite

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    There was nothing sexist about his comment- the same advice can be given to any man as well.
    Comparing to Trump's alleged statements is unwarranted.

    OP is a real person in a crisis situation, and people are trying to give her practical advice whatever they truly feel. It is not a competition in sweetness.
    Whether the advice is good or bad, that will be decided by OP and time will tell its consequences - we cannot say and dismiss others' advice .
     
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    Any post on a public forum will be questioned.
     
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    netflx Gold IL'ite

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    Questioning is ok, and different from your rude answers. I think if Thyag sir reports your post to Mods, then you will be told the same by Moderator/Admin, but we are regular posters mentioning that to you based on observation.
     
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    Hopikrishnan Gold IL'ite

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    this is the issue, i have mentioned before, instead of sharing your experience to OP. When some members start questions others ideas, the whole thread is changed, it is practically useless to the OP. this is really a bad practice in being critical to other member's input.

    let the OP decide what is useful or not
     
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