Hi all, Background - Ours was love marriage. We have been married for 8 years with no kids so far. H is brought by his mom since his father separated and remarried. Our marriage was done with only his side. Our marriage happened without my parents knowledge. They were invited for reception. My parents were not happy with my love before marriage because of his background (his family wanted us to wait 4-5 years for marriage) and he had lots of responsibilities(nearly 40 lakh needed for his sisters marriage). Later they also came to know about his dad which was the final nail in coffin. After college I got good proposals from relatives who were rich (Out relatives are quite rich and mostly into business ). Our family was doing OK with my maternal side support so my parents wanted me to get into good family and have good life. This is very common in our families where girls get married early and to good families. My husband wanted to marry me so he said many things about my marriage proposals which according to him was right. ( like such rich family accepting normal class then guy must have some problem, age gap of 6-7 years too much but common in our side, engineering should not marry MSC ,your parents are trying to trade you for money). I too thought what he said was correct and just followed whatever he said. But now, after age and seeing the actually reality I understand my parents were right. His views too changed when he started searching groom for his sister marriage, I now feel he has manipulated me. After marriage, my parents faced huge humiliation in society, they had no place to stay n lost some financial assets during this confusion(which he said I should not trust). But it was true. My younger sisters marriage was also delayed. I started talking with my family after few years and started feeling guilty for all that I have done to them. Meanwhile I was providing two years financial support for his sisters marriage and he was giving all his earnings for first 4.5 years of marriage . Also he decided not to have kids until his sisters marriage and hubby was trying for top government jobs too. Once he cleared, I thought now we can try for kid but he kept postponing for next 1.5 years. Then finally I went off my head and fought with him for child. But he started giving reasons saying during fight men can't have intercourse as we had started by then, I took the most painful tests (for which he said we need not have kid if you have to undergo such tests). Once in a while I had some urine infection which got better later and it was trivial for pregnancy. But he went and said my family that I'm not cooperative while trying, he didn't have urge to do and I have medical problems. At one point he was projecting to families that I have pschological issues towards my hubby and said I should not try baby for minimum 6 months. Neither he or his family showed interest for baby. MIL or his grandparents never enquired about kids. Few times during our fights I have talked bad about his family (broken family, not much relatives, orthodox, they don't like to socialize). This was out of my frustration when he didn't respond for baby but I never said to hurt him. I asked me to leave his house immediately and created huge scene. We fell apart in the last few months and now I completely lost trust, love and everything in marriage. I was happy go lucky girl with completely different mindset. Though my husband is good as a person, every other thing is negative in his side. Different mindset, none accepted me in their family though they don't humiliate me, no relatives from his side apart from his mother's siblings, unmarried sister, MIL responsibilities, no kids . My hubby has no proper financial backup and we have to start from scratch now. I'm not interested in working in long run but he wants me to work. I have always taken care of me so far. Now Im scared where my life is leading too. I feel very empty, lonely and have lost my life because of this marriage. My parents are advising me to remarry and they feel my hubby is not right for me. When they heard him talking and his complaints my parents could not take it. They have seen a guy within our community and their family is interested too (Divorced love marriage and he is from good background) . But I'm unable to think of another marriage and my situation with hubby is bad for last 3 years and not able to move on. If we try to sort out, he comes with various conditions his family first and many others things. Though he never does any of these things. Should I move on and divorce.